Do I do too little around the house?

[xJayleenx]

i work Monday to Friday 2:30 pm to 11 pm and my brother helps with the dishes those days. And on the days that I’m off I clean the bathrooms but that’s all I do and I shower the dog about every two weeks and I organize the dishes some days. Am I doing too little around the house? My mom doesn’t have a job so she’s the one cooking and stuff and my dad is the only one that works. I personally like working my shift because it keeps me away from the chaos that is my home 😂 people might see it as a curse because I don’t have time for anything but I’d rather be doing wires than being over here

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+1 y

Just wondering because these men at work said “that’s all you do?” after they asked if I was going to help my mom clean the house and I said I’ll just clean the bathrooms lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Has your mom been lightening up lately?
Because she was working you like a dog before!

Personally I think you deserve a break now. You've earned it.

by the way, I'm glad your little brother is stepping up now.

[xJayleenx]

She’s only like that sometimes but she’s been saying that I barely help around the house

[Jamie05rhs]

@xJayleenx Well, she's using your car that you paid half of. That should count for something. You are contributing through that alone!

So don't let her bully you. ✊

[Sparkie460]

It doesn't seem like your brother does that much. I think you do enough around the house. It's more than my daughter does.

[xJayleenx]

My brother mows the lawn like every two weeks and he helps with the trash and dishes while I’m gone

[saffoler]

Cleaning the bathroom is a big job. Plus you already have a job. Your brother and mother should be doing almost all of the house work since they are unemployed.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

trying 2 judge what u should do in absolute terms makes u complacent when u could be doing relatively more and overwhelmed when u could be doing less

judge in relative term not absolute

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You do the best you can and your mom wants you to do more just makes no sense I think you and your mom just don't click sorry but this is how I feel about things

[FilmGuy93]

Meh... as long as you're doing what you can and the house doesn't look/smell like crap, I think you're probably fine.

[NathanDavis]

I did way more than that when I was age 9... lol

[xJayleenx]

I used to wash all the dishes everyday but I guess now I can’t because I come back too late

[NathanDavis]

better start saving for a house keeper then... lol

[xJayleenx]

My brother and my mom are both unemployed

[NathanDavis]

at some point, you will have to leave on your own... and you will have to do 100% of the chores, unless you pay someone else to do it

[xJayleenx]

Yeah me and my boyfriend will do both. That’s okay

[Andres77]

From the sound of it, you do plenty.

[Wise4myage]

Doesn't sound like that to me.