I'm the 3rd child in my family and as much as people tell you the youngest is always the favourite that just isn't true. I have a good relationship with my mum and dad but I'm definitely not either of there favourite child I just the other one to everyone in my family. For example my oldest stister went to work in France for 2 mouths and my mum cried she missed her so much. I moved town last October and no one in my whole family asks about me or how I'm doing , they rarely answer my texts or phone calls.
I've never gave them a reason for this either. I never really misbehaved as much as my two older stisters did growing up. Yes I was could be bad but the things I did were not nearly on the same level as my stisters yet I'd be punished and they wouldn't be.
Even my boyfriend sees but my family don't care about me as much as my two older stisters so it's not just me self pitying.
I've bought a house with my boyfriend and my family aren't nearly as excited they they were when it was my oldest stister. My oldest stister old my mum's side of the family about me buying a house and they just went on to talking about themselves.
My mum's side of the family barely acknowledged by exist. Whenever I visit them they think I'm my middle stister and I'm so used to it I go along with it and when they do know it's me they ask what classes I'm choosing to study for college when I left college 7 years ago. All they care about is their self and never ask my family about me or myself as soon I tell them something the ignore me.
I'm actually no one's favourite in my family. My oldest sister is my best friend but the rest wouldn't notice if I moved to the other side of the world.
Im used to it but my boyfriend gets very offended on my behalf and says when we get our house we are not Inviting my mum's family and not even telling them we've even bought a house. He says I should stop making a effort with them and cut them off completely.
