Is it wrong of me to not want to be watching my nephew all the time?

[Anonymous]

My sister always wants me teaching my nephew alphabets, numbers, or doing stuff for her, which I do most the time but I dont want to be doing that all the time. I want to do my own things as well for me and she expects me to stop what I'm doing and if I don't then she gives me attitude or acts passive aggressive its so annoying or she says I'm selfish or something

[menina]

I know how does that feel, I have to do the same for my nephews and nieces when my sisters visit me.
The difference is that sometimes I enjoy teaching them.
You're not being selfish, you have your things to do and your life to live. You don't have to be responsible for your nephew since he's not your son. Sure you can take care of him but your sister is his mother. She has more responsibility over him than you do.
So maybe it's time to tell her how you feel and hopefully she'll understand. I know it's not easy but I think it's something that you have to do. Otherwise she will want you to be like a mother to him all the time.

[Jen_27]

No you're not wrong kids are annoying. And also u'r not their mom. That's something wrong with your sister

[Wise4myage]

Then speak your mind and they’ll her no.