What would you do if your younger sister that you haven't seen for eight years reached out too you out of the blue?

[SarahJ92]

[Kacey811980]

@sarahj92 honey is this why you didn't want to talk about your family?

[SarahJ92]

@kacey811980 yeah im sorry I didn't know how to tell you. i did the same thing I did for eight years I couldnt handle it.

[Kacey811980]

@sarahj92 oh god im so sorry i couldn't imagine wondering if my only sibling was alive or not. look when you meet her im going with you shouldn't have to face this alone.

[SarahJ92]

@kacey811980 its ok I will explain everything but not on here before we meet with her. and yes I would like that💖

[Kacey811980]

@sarahj92 that sounds good.

[Blackcosmo]

I'd be very shocked and happy to see her. But if we ended things badly I might be a bit bitter at first but I'll soften up eventually.

[marvis6]

Excited... come on it's been eight Long years.. except you two didn't get along or had issues

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 we got along but we both were in an abusive family and I had to leave its very complicated big part of me is glad she reached out and wanted to see me

[marvis6]

Don't hesitate dear... go see her... and know how's she's doing or Maybe she's reaching you for help... I suggest you both meet

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 I think I will and I hope that is true or maybe its to blame me which I hope not.

[marvis6]

There's a possibility she might blame for leaving or. that might not be the case... but if it comes to that meeting her would be a really good choice to make her see reasons and make up for it... you just scared of what she wants to say that's why you hesitating

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 your exactly right on all counts.

[marvis6]

So yea... don wait too long go meet her

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 I actually just messaged her back i did ask how she is doing and I did tell her I was hesitant but scared she blames me see what she says

[marvis6]

Okay that's cool.. well played... but anyways blood is blood... so it's all good

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 yeah even if she is here to tell me off I will meet with her I guess I have it coming

[marvis6]

It's best you just don't expecting anything... but let her feel you missed her and you cherish this moment... that would help with whatever is coming

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 think that is wise and I have missed her I thought about her everyday for eight years and I guess the other reason I am affraid of hearing about what she went through confirming my worst fears.

[marvis6]

Well Sarah you can't escape it... it's okay to be scared but you still gonna be glad you guy's are finally in contact... I mean she survived all this time... so.. it's all gonna be okay.. I Know that for sure

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 yeah, I know im just glad she is alive cause i wondered everyday for years until now what happened. I think she just wrote me back.

[marvis6]

Yea I understand... but it's all gonna be good

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 yeah she actually just wrote me back and said no i dont blame you did what you had too, I just want to reconnect

[marvis6]

That's really good...
Am glad she's more matured to react like that... it's all good you both need to catch up and connect back

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 well she is 18 now on her own its tougher than she thought. plus she was only 10 at the time

[marvis6]

I could imagine that it hasn't been easy for her... she needs her big sister

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 yeah I meeting with her tomorrow

[marvis6]

That's Great ☺️

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 yeah im relieved

[marvis6]

Wasn't bad after all 😊

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 no think goodness I can't tell you how many sleepless nights I had worrying if she was alive or not. she told me she has been trying to find me for couple years

[marvis6]

Wow this a big relief on both of you... you guys are great... just make the best out of this reconnection

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 I will. turns out she aske my dad why I ran away and he gave her a story and she knew it was lie so she ran away too six years later

[marvis6]

Wow... you guys are really strong hearted and brave... I love that...

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 sweet of you to say but we didn't have much choice. i let you know how it goes when i see her

[marvis6]

Alright sure... Thanks

[SarahJ92]

@marvis6 no thank you, I am glad i listened to your advice.

[marvis6]

You welcome dear

[SlothySlob]

Guess we'd talk and probably reconnect? Depends how we ended things.

[SarahJ92]

@SlothySlob that is what I am hoping for yes.

[Nikki1989]

I would be shocked. I haven't seen my sister for 15 years.

[SarahJ92]

@nikki1989 yeah sorry i didn't tell you sooner, just we both come from a very abusive family I be happy to explain but only in dm private message. and sorry about that too 💖

[kylee2437]

I would love if my sister reached out to me right now. I miss her 😩

[marvis6]

Call her then... you both cool?

[SarahJ92]

@kylee2437 I am sorry your sister you have to miss your sister. long story short we both grew up in an extremely abusive family, so I ran away I wanted to take her with me but couldnt and she didn't think things where that bad. I am very excited she reached out but Im also scared too

[kylee2437]

@marvis6 we are cool but she’s loaded with work all the time

[kylee2437]

@SarahJ92 aww well I think she’s in need of her sister and I hope things work out for the better for you two. Don’t be scared! Sisterly love is what we need. Nothing better than having a sister

[brezzybaby]

KaceY11818 or some shit blocked me because of an opinion I had and I think it's funny but all she had to do was explaim her situation to me a little more instead of acting like a 12 yr old high school girl and blocking me

[1GoldTwins]

Catch up! Eight years to catch up on, that's a city trip!

[SarahJ92]

@1GoldTwins yeah im going too I just decided that.

[rachel776]

family can always come back unless they intentionally want to hurt you

[FunkyMonkee]

Beat the fucking shit out of them with a baseball bat!!!

[_Just_A_girl_]

Facetime.
See a movie only movie so it's minimal talking.

[XLlabia]

Welcome her, and chat to see how things are going.

[JenniferBiArizona]

Talk to her. I have family members I have not talked to in years. Such waisted time

[StephanieHH]

Welcome her back with open arms.

[SarahJ92]

@StephanieHH I did she was so happy to see me and i was her.

[StephanieHH]

Aw that's awesome!

[SarahJ92]

@StephanieHH we both came from an abusive family which is why ran away I wanted to take her with me but she wouldn't go plus she is quite a bit younger than me an didn't know.

[Bklynbadboy12]

We'd talk and catch up I would've missed a lot in 8 years

[Sour-rose]

"What, bish?"

[yourpalval]

Depends on why we're not talking

[panamared1]

reach back

[Vnsyu]

I agree.

[SarahJ92]

@panamared1 I did and its going well

[Anonymous]

Welcome her back. Then privately do a happy dance.

[Anonymous]

Wonder why suspiciously.

[elizamichale1]

Welcome her

[Stella188]

What does she want?