Me and a few of my family members have seen my sister in law (married) snap chatting another guy. What should we do as family members?

[JessicaEarl]

[HollyK21]

I’d personally say to stay out of it. My exception to this is the nature of the snaps, like are they blatantly flirtatious, or flat out inexcusable like sexy pics or even nudes. But just seeing another guys name, it’s just hard to know what’s being discussed, which means you could be starting unnecessary drama between them and if he stays, then she’ll be upset with you guys and it’ll be awkward all around.

[Emiliamazing]

Oooh, don’t know anything about that platform. A simple/non intrusive approach would be my move. Evidence must be present to put blame/accuse her of cheating. Sorry this stressor appeared

[JessicaEarl]

It’s basically selfies that delete after you open them. Since it’s basically useless to have a continuous convo (things delete no matter what), it’s basically meant for pure fun/flirty interaction

[Emiliamazing]

Thanks for the explanation. Can’t really imagine using it myself, texting works for our household just fine. I’m probably not gonna be the unbiased opinion you are seeking😔

[Emiliamazing]

I liked your question, only to get you the points. I don’t like the situational implications

[Smartman5]

women do not have sisters-in-law. sister-in-law is the sister of the married man's wife. Who exactly did you see?

[JessicaEarl]

Hi mr smarty pants.

There are two kinds of sisters in law.
1. My brothers wife
2. My husbands sister

Both are people that have become the equivalent to a sister through marriage under the law

I’m talking about my husbands sister

[Smartman5]

I understood. What was your husband's sister talking to that man? Was it over the phone or a face-to-face conversation?

[JessicaEarl]

Snapchat

[Smartman5]

Text or video chat? do you know that man? what kind of things were they talking about? Was they speaking in secret?

[Guy13]

Confront her about? Bit don’t tattletale 🤷🏻‍♂️

[LilyoftheLake]

Just bring it up with her, and if she refuses to talk to you about it, maybe bring it up with her husband. There might be nothing, but if she seems like there's something fishy, he needs to know.

[wingattebaby16]

i would mind my own business.

if anything, talk to her first.

Usually this is innocent boredom.

if she is trying to cheat, it will wake her up and she will talk to her partner.

[Tiptoetamm]

Maybe the conversation is harmless and just regular conversation. It's normal for people to have friends and chat with them online unless you have evidence that she is talking sexually or romantically with someone I would leave it alone.

[fonduegirl]

Uh nothing? Unless she's exchanging nudes — she ain't breaking no rule.

[Anonymous]

I would say something to the husband. Honestly save him some heart ache. she's more than likely a worthless piece of shit cheater.

[JessicaEarl]

Do you have any statistics to share on that?

[Opinion Owner]

Why would i need statistics? its from personal experience.

[Jamie05rhs]

First of all, no married person should be on SnapChat, ever.

[LiamSawyer]

Mind your own business.

[Andres77]

Ask questions in the open.

[jengeorge26]

Don’t make a family feud over “Snap Chat”

[vald9inches]

Whats wrong with Snapchat?

[In_Trance]

Nothing. It's not your business

[Abdulwahh]

Stop her speak to her

[slatyb]

Nothing.

[panamared1]

Leave it be