Dating within my ex husband's family. What do we do?

[Anonymous]

Me & my ex-husband's nephew are in love? He's the sweetest, kindest man I've ever met and has been there for me during my abusive relationship. In that time feelings between us have developed. But we never did anything about it. We kept is from one another. Last week he spilled the beans and we both talked about how we feel for each other. What do we do? We don't think the family will accept it! At all! We are very conflicted. He is also 15 years younger than me! This is a mess! Once my divorce papers were signed he expressed his feelings. He said that he has been waiting 6 years for me!

[sheikalana]

I think you should completely detach from your ex husband's family and cut ties with everyone. You know this is never going to work and the problems it could possibly cause for the both of you. I believe you need some peace in your life, not problems. You say you just signed your divorce papers and was in an abusive relationship take some time for yourself and enjoy being alone for some time. Take care.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of post-divorce emotions and new love is always a thrill ride, isn't it? Now, mixing in a touch of forbidden romance with your ex-husband's nephew – well, that's a plot twist worthy of a bestseller! Here’s the scoop: love doesn't always follow the rules, and sometimes it leads us down paths we never expected. It sounds like you've both been on quite the emotional journey, and finding solace and connection in each other is beautiful, albeit complicated.

The age difference and family connection certainly add layers of complexity. But remember, love is about connection, understanding, and mutual respect, regardless of age. The key here is communication and transparency, especially with family members who might be taken aback by your relationship.

Giving the family time to adjust, and possibly seeking the guidance of a relationship coach (wink, wink) or family therapist to navigate these choppy waters, could help smoothen the ride. Love is powerful, but it also requires patience and understanding from all sides involved. Keep the lines of communication open, continue to support each other, and who knows? This unexpected love story might just have the happy ending you both are hoping for. Remember, the heart wants what it wants, and sometimes, it just needs a little bit of courage to follow it.

[strateguy632]

hey bot wait a while so humans can get the first answer reward. you answered immediately.

[Cheerfull009]

You should wait, because divorce is very recent, so family will think that, nephew was the reason of divorce

[strateguy632]

if you love him, then ignore the family.

[rebeliouse]

run away with him and start a new life