Am I being bullied? how should I deal with them?

[Anonymous]

umm... my new session class 11th started about 2months ago but i just recently joined in... it feels like everyone hates me... there's this group of girls... i kinda had an argument with them about the sitting arrangement and now they all are backbitching about me behind my back

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but what provoked me was

today in phycology class...2 people of that group said to one of my only new friend that 'if you talk to her [me] then we'll stop talkin with you... she stopped talkin to me and now i'm all by myself

what do you think i should do?

and also i'm really good at yk fighting physically so should i fight them?

but the thing is they're silent in front of me... they only speak behind my back so i don't really have a reason to fight against them...

[Mynameisbobby]

Definitely been there before. As hard as it is understand that it's not your fault! I was bullied from 7th grade up to 11th grade. Mostly by girls but some boys also. What made it really bad for me was teachers and the principal never took what I said seriously because they were girls. Thank God I had the support of my Uncle and brother if it wasn't for them i don't know if I could have handled it. I was abused when I was little so I had learned some ways of coping with what what was going on. Fighting them probably won't help much maybe make it worse. Ignore them you know who you are and that you're a good person. Have you talked with your mom or dad about this? Or maybe a counselor? I really wish you the best. I hate bullies and stand up to them now. If we were in the same school they wouldn't get away with bullying you. If you have any questions just ask.

[Anonymous]

Standard female teenage stuff then. Isolate someone and destroy their standing, improve their own standing and remind everyone who is top dog. It's a form of bullying, it's a form of control.
Get angry, get smart, take control.
Identify the ring leader. If she puts a foot out of line, set her straight. If you have the balls, you might in any case approach the group, single her out with her groupies listening, look her in her eyes, and tell her card is marked - you don't like the way she talks about you. Not her friends, just her. It's personal. She needs to be careful where she goes, if you ever catch her just one on one, she's in trouble. Not her friends, just her. She should watch her back.

And mean it.

[kataang]

You should ignore them because they’re clearly acting like that to bother you. Don’t try and fight them since you said it was a group and they’ll probably jump you.

[UnknownGagsUser]

The problem is your lovely new friend if she so lovely she should never listen to anyone tell her what to do lol - get new friends and ignore those grouo.

[Adam1978]

Learn to pick your fights, this isn't one you should be fighting. Ignore them nothing good will come out of it. It probably started from an unecissary fight. Because you said seating arrangement, just sit in a free chair, don't argue about such trivial things.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Don't get yourself in trouble, if someone stopped talking to you cause someone else told them too then they are just as toxic as the group, you'll make new friends, if they do it behind your back then they are cowards and I wouldn't consider that bullying

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Fighting people because they won't hang out with you will only ensure that no one ever hangs out with you again. You'll just have a "fucking psycho" label pinned to you permanently.