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For the majority of my life I've had to deal with assholes regardless of gender
I don't even have to say anything or show or NOt show any interest
The drama comes to me
Well I'll just get straight to the point
There's a few local stores that frequently go to to buy either groceries or snacks
I've noticed that the clerks & cashiers always have a frown or look of annoyance anything they have to tend to me
Several of them have looked directly at me with a scowl but drop it once the person behind me is next in line
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Once you stop giving a fuck about other people life is awesome man. Care about the people that appreciate you
So you're agreeing that I'm passively being disrespected & rejected?
Well if you dont say anything i doubt it. Most people dont scowl at someone over their appearance even if theyre -1/10
Same. We are just natural triggers for others. Our presence intimidates them. Just keep on smiling and ignoring them
So you're in a Similar situation?
Yes its part of why I’m not a people person. I keep to myself
How do they mess with you & why do you assume?
I don’t assume and I was often bullied for no reason. I asked why and they said they just knew from the gate they would not like me and did not. Never a good reason
I'm never told though
My enemies usually either scowl [in numbers] from afar or raise their eyebrows at me when we are in close proximity
The raising eyebrows thing always caught me off guard
Have any idea what it means?
You could just be paranoid then
They roll their eyes at the checkout line when it's my turn to pay
They avoid eye contact but frown as their attending to my purchases
One word answers & very serious
The female cashiers act the same but one tried arguing with me on purpose by making a big deal on why I buy soo much food
No to an extent because my lack of a social life is proof
Until someone says something directly to you, ignore them and keep being the best you that you can be
Are you bitter about your circumstances?
Not at all. I love that my presence is a bother. If you’ve got people obsessed with you, then you are something great
WOW
Since you were a child people have ostricized you?
Age 5+ and it was mainly girls. I’ve gotten along great with men until the recent years
Are you conveniently attractive?
Your ethnicity?
Yes I am.
& yet you're made to feel like a misfit
Only by the haters
Jealousy
Yep which is why I want you to stay strong
You're a gal so it makes much more sense why you've got haters in comparison to me
How do you entertain yourself daily?
You have to almost fall in love with yourself to stay entertained. I focus on things I enjoy doing and songs that make me feel good about myself. I stay hopeful and happy. Don’t get me wrong, I have bad days, but the good outweighs it
You don't plan on dating or getting married or having kids?
Of course. I still talk to men (romantically) as I said before. But I have had male haters recently because they don’t like my mindset or they think my standards are too high for them. That just means they are not for me
So you're looking for a top teir?
Not at all. My standards are completely reasonable and I’ve come across many men who met them. We dated but broke up for them breaking certain boundaries
Oh ok
So are you literally "alone" in terms of being an outcast on most days?
Outside of the company of whatever guy I take interest in, I am alone. I am a lonewolf and love it. I am not a people person and I am tired of getting played by family and “friends” so I walk my own path
It's odd because my delimma is more of getting into petty beefs with both genders
The girls get all mad & irritated at me without me saying or doing anything
They guys either actively ignore me or passively show their hate
I always assume looks have a lot of do with it
Which is why I said they’re intimidated by you and you need to learn to ignore them and walk your own path like I do. Thats all i have to say on the matter
I always wondered why I triggered a few specific girls though
Basically there were some girl neighbors I had 3 years ago & they looked like your tiktok types
Hourglass figure with curves
But anytime they would see me they would throw a fit... getting hella mad & blabbering some insults & showing 😡
I find it amusing now looking back