Maybe she saved up all of her social energy for when you guys got to hang out and then all of the rest of the time you guys weren't hanging out you were only ever talking online and that online personality is more vibrant than her IRL personality. It's not that uncommon to find people who put all of themselves into who they are online and theyre introverted or shitty to be around in person.
Honestly you just don't have good friendship chemistry with her, people grow up and they change and they grow apart and I think if you just treat her as a roommate and find other people to be friends with maybe find a partner or learn how to be happy and content on your own that would be better than putting too much energy into figuring out why she's being less than fun to be around
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Obviously 🙄, you are in a pattern of living that is unhealthy. This needs to be addressed professional given you have replicated it in another setting. I would find a place that I could afford independently and get in Christian counseling at your church…or a secular one. Until the AH-HA light 💡 comes on, I would not put myself in a cohabitation condition.
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Time to find your own place. She saw how you could be taken advantage of.
It's time to move on from this and find some freedom and peace of mind.
You have low self esteem
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