Do you give people who did you dirty/hurt you bad another chance to come back into your life?

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Not gonna hand you the knife twice

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Never but like mostly I would still help them, if they should need me.
Like if an old friend who did me wrong stood outside my apartment, I would be friendly and help out, always, but I wouldn't stay tho
Also there are a few people to whom I promised that I would always be there for them, I didn't know that they would stab me, but I always keep my word.

LavLavLuv · Accepted Answer

hmmm

ObscuredBeyond · Accepted Answer

Everything is a case by case basis. But if she's jeopardized me in some truly serious way, her argument for why I should let her anywhere near me had better be hella convincing.

Foolishis the gal who assumes I'll just lie down and be a total simp for her.

BJP21 · Accepted Answer

Not looking forward to endless rounds of abuse I was subject to. So... NO.

TheVigilantOne · Answer

I did with this one girl, but I realised that I only stayed with her as I was scared to be alone, she was toxic as all hell but I didn’t want to be alone and I was scared of what she’d do if I left (she’s a narcissist) I have now left her and I will never ever let her come back into my life, she was the worst thing I’m my life for over a year.

Havthrills · Answer

No. Once they're done, they're done. One ex I thought was going to stab me in my sleep while we were divorcing. Another ex girlfriend literally wanted to gut me open for... enjoyment? So called friends used whatever I had, usually kept it saying I never lent it to them, promised to invite me to cookouts and stuff but always "forget". That's just some examples.

So no. They can fuck off. I'm better off without them.

Guardian45 · Answer

Do me wrong; forgive and forget; shame on you; Strike 1.  Do me wrong again; shame on me; forgive; Strike 2.  Do me wrong AGAIN; I'LL NEVER forget & You're DEAD to me; Strike 3! You're OUTTA THERE!!!

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. I believe in forgiveness, but that doesn't mean I will let the person who stuck a knife in my back, come back into my life.

Being good and merciful is very good but always take your brain with you as well.

If they did it once then the second time around is much easier for them to screw you over again.

ZackBan · Answer

I'm definitely a fan of "an eye for an eye" when the deed is not petty.
I won't waste my time with someone who wronged me on a minor level I'll just cut them off.
But those who hurt me in a life altering way I have their names written

NathanDavis · Answer

have not been there before... but I feel inclined to say, probably not it would take a lot for others to do so... so it would not be a minor thing, lol

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

I only let them back in, to kick them out again the way I want.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Both died untimely. It wasn't me :D As for the lesser cases - I'll still allow them to notice me, but interaction is reduced to one-syllable-responses from my own side.

dustybiker · Answer

Nope. I hate fair-weather friends too. They are gone too. I’ll amuse them if it suits me but otherwise.. nope.

ChiTown33 · Answer

If I cut somebody out of my life there was a reason. But I don't wish anyone any ill will. Even if I cut you out of my life I wish you well. But no, you don't get a second chance in my life. 🙂

ConspiracyTheorist · Answer

I did and boy their has been plenty of moments where I wish I wouldn't have but I'm a fool for love I guess even if it's one sided😢

PamelaRivers · Answer

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

Sour-rose · Answer

Lol no. Sure, we may be family, but doesn't mean for shi that I gotta let you back in.

Quetion · Answer

My answer is like that meme. (I like the meme by the way) Its a total NAH for me too.

20yearsolder · Answer

Nope, If it's intentional, screw me over once and I'm done with you

spartan55 · Answer

Depends on what happened etc. But generally speaking, no.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

No once they've wronged me I completely cut them out of my life

Sixgunsound · Answer

I agree with your original sentiment. That’s a hard nope.

AviatorTom · Answer

To me, everyone is entitled to one mulligan ... but not two.

bigpauly · Answer

Usually no. I give family more of a chance but it can lower the ceiling of love I will ever have for them. I only get over it for the rest of my families sake.

nawtee_me · Answer

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me… forgive does not mean forget…

Reddy4it · Answer

Good policy…always that ‘once bitten twice shy’ mentality…

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Overall, no. I might be cordial but I would never have the same level of trust or respect for this person.

TroyDT · Answer

Some offenses will exclude them from my circle for life. I'll be polite, but that is it.

Jerre · Answer

I have never been hurt so hard to say. Most likely I would give them a second chance

more_than_a_guy · Answer

I used to let them too many chances, then I realized it's only harming me more, so I stopped.

dolemite89 · Answer

I don't know if i should in this circumstance 🤔😛

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Nope never get lost.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Hail naw!

RavVid · Answer

Its a NAH from me

crossdressingrihno · Answer

Yeah but you only got one before I get petty

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

No, I doubt it

Jennz6 · Answer

No, it’s over

exitseven · Answer

Probably not. Life is too short.

fonduegirl · Answer

No second chances

beebella · Answer

Yeah, that's a big problem for me. 😭

douride2 · Answer

Nope your out of my life.

neoagent1 · Answer

Nope never have and won't start.

Onashir · Answer

Only to give her the TASTE OF HER OWN MEDICINE

Deserter · Answer

Nope, I'm petty like that

FckY0u998 · Answer

depends on the extent but sometimes yeah

Zolly99999 · Answer

Thats a hard NO !

Fuentes · Answer

Nope it's forever BEEF

Xtendable · Answer

Depends how badly they hurt me

mandyfire98 · Answer

Never

Lucy68 · Answer

Never again

BLP11520 · Answer

No I shit can them

Hawner · Answer

Nope.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

AsaKyo · Answer

Not anymore

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Fuck no.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Nope

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes….

pizzalovershouse · Answer

No I don't

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