What would u do if u only have a few friends and they usually just busy ignoring u plus covid time hard to go gathering hard to make new friends?

[Jojojojojojojo]

Like the topic.
I only have a few friends like 5-6..

they are always busy. The one who talked to me more often , started getting busier for studies nowadays.. sometimes took a day to reply. Once he replied he just disappear again.

I tried to meet some other friends hangout dinner once per two weeks at least but it’s still hard..

I don’t feel like apps can get long term friends. Most apps are for dating or hookups..

[Anonymous]

A lot of people are fake. It is better to have one or two friends than 25 fake friends. You are an adult now. It is not like high school, where kids walk up to you and tell you they will be your BFF. You are just young and not used to it yet.

[Jojojojojojojo]

So.. How often do u meet them?

[Opinion Owner]

Like once every two weeks, I am mostly busy running a business. Trading and investing. It takes a while to get used to. I understand how you feel. It sucked for me too. But once I started earning money and got busy with life, three friends were enough for me.

[Jojojojojojojo]

I see…

[Jojojojojojojo]

If u argued with one of them and the other one just busy then might turned out completely isolated…

[Opinion Owner]

No, do not feel sad. Use meetup dot com. Learn a language with other people.

[Opinion Owner]

There is always a friend you can make. But it is more challenging because you have to earn someone's trust as an adult. Like when you were a kid, kids were more trusting. But because adults have been burnt in the past, they have a more challenging time making friends and trusting you. You have to speak with an open heart and show the person you are serious.

[Jojojojojojojo]

Are u married or living with family?

[Jojojojojojojo]

Yea I understand that.
Harder…

[Opinion Owner]

Just a girlfriend no marriage yet. I should probably, but I am scared. Not saying it would fail. It's just usually when something is working out so well, I always end up with nothing. Afraid that I am overthinking, she is the one for me.

[Jojojojojojojo]

Ah I see. If u r living with her then u can chat with her instead of friends.
Sounds good. Congrats

[Opinion Owner]

Just ask yourself, "why do people have friends?" The answer is simple; people have friends because they need something from someone. As a child, you are dependent. The older you get, the more independent you become and the less you need from others. So the less you need from others, the less you have to pander to others. You do not need to put up with anyone you do not want to. That is why it is essential to focus on doing the job you.

As long as you have the money to do what you want, you are rich. People are forced to do things they do not want to. You won't be happy every day, but as long you love what you do, you can get through the hard days.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't know, I'm having trouble finding friends who share my hobbies for more than a month, most people get bored of what I like, and then I have to find new friends all over again.

[Jojojojojojojo]

🥲🥲🥲sad

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yup, It's one of many reasons I want a wife who is basically my mind in a woman's body (minus sexual preferences, obviously those would still be different).

[Havthrills]

I really don't have any to talk to or hang out with.

[Jojojojojojojo]

Are u married? If so u at least have a wife to talk to or kids

[melanieeeB]

Start making new friends

[Jojojojojojojo]

Umm.. I’m trying to. But not sure from which way..
co workers doesn’t seem like a good option.

[melanieeeB]

What do you like to do in your free time? I sometimes meet new people in the movies, used to in the gym and sometimes online through local apps or like local events