You have a "friend" and you guys have been friends for 16 years.
The last time you hung out with her you felt peer pressured to drink. So you mentioned it to her and told her to please not do that again. Which is the first time you said something about it.
She replies that she has never peer pressured you before and in fact you have peer pressured her. You apologize immediately and ask when that happened and she said the last time you hung out.
Then you say, "Well you have peer pressured me a bit in the past." Then you give a bunch of examples which you have a lot of. Some really mean messed up stuff that she did to you along with peer pressuring.
And then she just doesn't even reply back. She just ignores you and doesn't say she's sorry or acknowledges or anything at all. Just ghosts you. Though I doubt the friendship is over she's just waiting for you to text something normal like a "How are you?" So she can probably reply to it and act like you didn't just call her out on being a shitty friend.
But what is interesting is that you owned up to "peer pressuring her" and yet when you point out hey, "Hey well you've done this to me." She just ignores you... I just wonder how she can just treat someone like that and think it's normal and right...
