Are people more honest when you get into a heated argument? I felt hurt?

[Anonymous]

I felt hurt about something my cousin did and confronted her about it.. but I also offered forgiveness and said it was fine. It ended up turning into a horrible argument.

and then my cousin said that no one likes being around you bc you’re so slow

that really really hurt.. bc I feel like it’s true. I’ve been called dumb and slow my whole life.. it made me even more insecure

[kylee2437]

She obviously meant it, but that doesn’t mean it is true. The issue is , is many times people get the urge to win so much to the point where they will say something they know will hurt you. Maybe she knows you have an insecurity with that etc can low balled to hurt you because she knew that was the only way of winning the situation. Personally, if she’s too immature to hear you out and converse like an adult , you obviously aren’t the problem and she is.

[Mynameisbobby]

Sorry she said that to you. That would've hurt me also. It was very mean of her.

[Brando10222]

She meant it

[Asker]

Yeah, I know.