Why do bad things happen ASAP when sharing anything positive with my friend?

[Anonymous]

I know this sounds outrageous but I've seen patterns.

• He is extremely intrusive and wants to know every single detail of my life. Ironically, he keeps many things private to himself.
• Good things that happen in my life remains the same IF I DON'T share it with him.

But as soon as i share anything good, the opposite happens after a few hours or as quickly as the next day.

POSITIVE NEWS I SHARED WITH HIM AND IT GOT DESTROYED :

1. My dog's habits improved since weeks.

Dog went spoiled again after few hours!

2 : I'm finally at peace.

Suddenly after a while, it's all destroyed for many days.

3. My new friend group is loyal, intellectual, honest and reliable.

(HE SAID, YOU FOUND BETTER FRIENDS BUT THEY ALL ARE TEMPORARY. He was fuming with rage when I told him we're a lifetime group).

Then bad drama, shitty fights, manipulations started in my group.

• Then I lied to him that I cut everyone off, he was very glad, he celebrated it and now luckily my friend group turned out to be as genuine as it was before, it's been months we are going strong.

4. I got an amazing house for 3 years.

After a while, out of nowhere we were unfairly kicked out and shifted to a worse place.

LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST !!!

5. I'll be travelling abroad, the trip gets cancelled.

He was glad again but then suddenly i got my ticket.

When I told him I'm abroad, he was green with envy and I got covid while returning despite taking all the precautions.

• The moment he thinks I'm as miserable as him, then good things again return in my life.
• But when he gets to know that I'm happier than him, worse things happen.

BOTTOM LINE : The moment I share anything good with him it gets jeopardized but as soon as I started keeping quiet, things always got better or remained the same.

THIS NEVER HAPPENED WHEN SHARING GOOD NEWS WITH OTHER FRIENDS.

• Also, my life was never this shitty or filled with bad luck.
• Shit only happens after sharing good things with him.

Updates

1 y

He told me : at least you have a better life, at least u have xyz. (despite the fact that I come from toxic family and I fought hardest for everything).
I go, take risks and get things done, he still says : You're lucky. He tells me I'm happy for you, but later I find it's sarcastic and he's secretly envious.
I never overshare or brag but he only insists and digs deep in my every single matter. Even if I'm normal, he always asks, are you sad, did something bad happen, etc

[menina]

I'm sorry to break this down for you but he's not your friend. Friends don't get jealous of each other when something good happens. If he likes you, he should be happy for you. It seems to me that he's manipulative, fake and abusive. He can't stand the idea of you being joyful and your life going well.
No offense but he's not someone I would like to have as a friend, he's toxic. If I were you I would cut him off.

[Asker]

That's what I'm doing. That jerk wanted to be more than friends as he told me he will end this friendship whenever any one of us gets in a committed relationship. Yet he expects me to talk everyday to him or share everything with him. He was against me changing my routine as he repeatedly asked why are you doing this. Then I said "do you have a problem?" He then said, no no whatever works for you.

[menina]

I'm glad you're doing this, it's the best thing you can do. He doesn't like you, if he did, he wouldn't act this way. He thinks he "owns" you, it's disgusting!
He wants to see you miserable; he's mean. Perhaps he's also doing all these things to prevent you from being in a relationship.

[Asker]

Like he will always tell me to call him after 10pm because that's when he finishes all his work but I got employed too. I prefer waking up early so he said, just talk 10 minutes before you'll sleep, I said no then I won't be able to sleep because I need one hour quiet time to gather my thoughts before falling asleep. He tried persuading me to bend to his will "but what difference will 10 minutes make?" I then lied to him no I need to meditate or finish a task, then still he asked 3 times, are you sure you're not doing this because of someone else? I SAID NO, DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH ME DECIDING TO ACTUALLY have a healthy routine? He backed off and said, no no what ever suits you.

[Asker]

Thanks girl!! You're right, he doesn't own me. If he can be selfish with his routine, I have a right too. If he has rules for friendship, so do I.

[menina]

What an idiot! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ He really wants to hurt you. You don't have to change your routine because of him. And why talking for 10 minutes? That's a long call in my opinion. He thinks he's fooling you and you'll do anything he wants. But you have the right of saying no.

Exactly, you're absolutely right! Stand up for yourself and don't let him ruin your mood and your life.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, he probably is into some weird satanic witchcraft shit. All of these cannot be coincidences. I think you should distance yourself from him.

[Asker]

These all are just the obvious ones, there are many others too. He might not be into witchcraft but his negativity, bad vibes and envy could be sending some bad energies.

[Asker]

Fuck another thing happened. A few days ago I told him my dad's the only one who is protecting me against my narcissistic mother, but then I had a gut feeling that my father will pass away if I keep telling him positive things about dad and today, his plane was ABOUT TO CRASH, but was saved. Thank GOD I kept my mouth shut a few days ago and didn't go overboard.

[Jamie05rhs]

OMG!! 😱

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, if it isn't him, it could be a girl who is jealous of you. Do you have any enemies? (Or frienemies?)

[Jamie05rhs]

Also, I hope this isn't the case, but it could hypothetically be you as well. You need to keep yourself far away from any and all mystical and spiritual things. Only the Bible. You need to get connected to God. God brings life and health and peace.

[Asker]

No frenemies because I'm very selective. I've never shared all these things with any girl. This guy is the only one who I shared all these things with since last few months.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay

[Jamie05rhs]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Guy13]

Playing with the devil and his rituals, games, and rites is only going to continue to exacerbate your Chaos

[Asker]

Means?

[Asker]

But isn't it strange when I keep good news away from him, the good news happens to last a long time and actually benefits me.

[Guy13]

As long as you embrace Evil things e we I’ll seemingly go good but then boom 💣 💥. Stay away from the spirits of the earth.