Does anyone else have this problem?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I'm too much of a pushover. I was at an event earlier today and my cousin (30) asked me to go to her car and grab her slippers. I didn't think much of it and go them since I assumed her feet were hurting. Her shoes were pretty high and I know she has a handicap sticker. Not sure what her handicap is though as I've seen her walking. Afterwards, my mom mentioned I should've said something instead of just going. How did anyone overcome being too passive? I feel like I'm too old to be like this

[Anonymous]

I think you're overthinking this. It wasn't a problem till your mom made it a problem. Your cousin asked you (she didn't TELL you). And you were nice and did it. Tell your mom I appreciate you looking out for me, but it's not a big deal. Tell her if it really bothers you, you can say something".

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

People like you are easy targets for evil people and predators, not saying your cousin is evil.

You have to grow a backbone, and quit thinking if you don't appease others that it makes you bad person because it doesn't.

[Anonymous]

i just think you're naturally nice

i guess you can start learning to say no. did she even say thank you? that would bother me. i guess i'm just used to doing things for myself when i need to grab something, for MYSELF

[Luckycharms12]

Nice to help people within reason that didn't seem like to much of big deal