I really want kids in general but a couple of years from now. Should I bring this up with my new guy?

[Anonymous]

I have a metabolic syndrome to where it's difficult to conceive. My OBGYN told me to basically have kids before I'm 30. I'm 27. It's a huge deal to me that I have kids because I always wanted them. I've been with my boyfriend for a month. He knows that I want kids in general but not about the pressure I'm under or my syndrome. Should I bring this up?

[Mofunfour20]

Be the main cause of his peace and tranquility and he wouldn't have any reason to feel pressured. What's wild is that youve only been together for a month, is he "the one" because you dont have time to feel him out or do you seriously see everything about him that would make him a good father?

[Saltystardust]

While it it's a bit early, telling him wouldn't hurt either, in case it's a deal breaker later down the road.

[jennifer_bloom]

I love kids and I also like having free time to chase my dreams in the absence of children. I’m happy with or without kids.

[In_Trance]

That's not going to sit well with a lot of guys. good luck

[Wise4myage]

No, that could scare him off.

[User3191989]

I don't want kids, at all

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

It’s way too soon.

[Asker]

Yeah but I don't want to waste his time or mine.