I've been dating this guy for a year but he wants me to have kids since I'm turning 30 in August is this too soon?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

You don’t have to have kids just because you’re turning 30. Wait until you’re ready and if it’s now then go for it, but do it for you and not just on his behalf. If Anything happened and you two didn’t work out, you want to be ok as a single mom and coparent.

[Asker]

He says im getting old to have kids

[HollyK21]

He can give his opinion, but at the end of the day it is YOUR choice. It’s you who has to go through pregnancy, and eventually become a mom. That’s a lot of responsibility and a big decision you shouldn’t make until you’re ready. Are you getting older? Yes, we all are. But you are not too old to have a kid in your 30s, a lot of women do.

[Berethor]

Time is not on your side, so maybe you should take this opportunity.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MyBiologicalClockIsTicking

[IsoUser]

To be perfectly honest it is YOUR OWN BODY An Your Choice, I am sure that your husband will respect your wishes I know that I would.

[lpoots]

as you have posted this you are unsure
then dont