Well, I think you should let him know because if you want this relationship to continue, you need to be open and honest about your expectations of this relationship.
For example, if you expect to get married, that should be communicated in the beginning of the relationship. Same would go for children. That’s important to talk about in relationships… I think you two need to sit down and mention that sooner or (a little) later, you do want to have children.
By all means, take time to discuss your plans for the future. Having babies is much easier when you are younger, and you will not want to wait forever, right?
If he has a hard time discussing this or just not a talker, then see if he will agree to a conference with a counselor. Family counselors will guide you through the mutual decision, and that way, you can both agree or disagree, but it will not turn into an angry affair for you both. Let the person guide you both through self diagnostics and other devices to understand yourselves and your combined potentials for raising children.
I wish you a terrific life with as many kids as you can handle. They are a blessing to you both and you both will be a blessing to them.
Ask him what his time-frame is for children. Is it that he doesn't want children at all, or does he expect kids to fit into a particular spot in his life. Find out how he sees his involvement with kids. Talk about different life stages and see how he pictures his involvement. Never assume the two of you have the same picture in mind, even if you are using the same words. He's more likely to be interested in your perspective after you have shown interest in understanding his perspective.
Why lie? If he is going to dump you if tell him yes, he sure as hell will dump you when it really happens. Sounds like right now he likes the no strings attached sex so he is keeping you hooked with "I'm not ready yet but someday soon I will. But that day will probably never come.
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You want honesty in a relationship don't you? Would you want him to lie to you? Tell him how you feel and that you lied. Communication and honesty. Yes it's possible you're on different time tables, but if you're open and honest with each other, then you come to a compromise maybe or can figure it out together. But my personal opinion, I know you maybe feel like "time is running out", but 2 years together is a little early for children. Take a bit more time getting to know each other even more and building the relationship even stronger before considering children or more.
Yes. Tell him. But be prepared for a confrontation. He doesn’t want them.
Personally I think you should wait till you’re married to have kids but don’t let my morality restrict you.
Then just lay his question on himself XD. Is he ready to have kids >.>
You should be honest and don't lie, that could ruin your relationship.
Yes, because he’s afraid you’ll stop taking the pill.
Swallowing prevents pregnancy, but then again, so does anal.
You said he is not ready... no?
You need to date an older dude who is ready.
Just make sure you use two forms of protection.
tell him you're a liar
Yes tell him
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