How did mom or dad discipline you as you grew up?

[jimmy2]

My dad said go to the woods behind house pick your switch. So I went saw a club around 5 inches and I thought oh that would with a club. Then with that mind set I saw a little switch and grab it thinks it's better than club.
Boy I was wrong lol how did your discipline go at home? Comments welcome.

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Ok another point was your discipline a help making who you are today. Did discipline keep you corrected?

[Anonymous]

Hm by physical abuse ofc lol
From my mom ofc
Actually my father never knew what was going on exactly like he was aware my mom was hitting me but not to the extreme. And reason why I was abused it was only and ONLY BECAUSE of school lol specifically math. getting low grades/ what’s interesting is that now that I’m so old I notice my mom is dumb in math too what was she expecting LMAO


I was hit with a jumping rope. Also extreme hair pulling from the air (I mean I was a shorty at 8 or 10 years old lol) that I couldn't control my body so it was like a floating body hahaha. With shoes. Pushing on the floor. And hands all over.
My mom hands were to heavy I would actually get green bruises on my arm body 😂. Once my mom wrapped me newspapers on my arm because it is believed (wet with water newspaper) gets rid of bruises quickly. And what’s funny is that my mom used to tell me my body is sensitive that’s why I got green bruises nOt bEcaUsE she was ehm maybe hitting a fresh young flesh? perhaps lmao
Also my mom would take me out of house reasons are funny too lol for example once that day it was raining and I drew a heart on the window my mom got angry and asked did I drew it? But I mean it was just me her and my brother who else would have done it lol I said no because I knew she was going to get angry 🥺😂 she got so angry I lied and she was like go outside. So I was thrown to stay outside the building too. It was very hard because I was young: and all I was worried was did I hurt my mom? So sweet of me. I mean this bad abuse had it’s funny moments too. The neighbor would come home from work and ask me why am I outside ? I would still protect my mom and be like oh no just to play that’s why haha


Actually I’m trying hard to remember but I don’t remember much from my childhood sadly because I have gone through a lot and every day of my life I never really went back to search my last memories so I don’t really remember much of my childhood. Only when I see a pic of videos. I be like ohh that’s me.


I live with my family nowadays my and my brother we support my mom. I know it’s hard what I went though but While growing up I learned that her parents actually never loved her she was that typical elder child out of 5 others. So she was never loved and also my grandmother abused her too. A lot


I have to say though this abuse affected me for example when I hear kids cry my soul is crying I snap right away tears floating. Like I can’t stand a kid cry. I go away right away. Also suffered in school hard to pass sometimes in university. And my dating too sucks even now. I’m 31 never dated a men before. Well I have only shared a kiss only when I was 26 😂 I think that was my dad spirit helping me he passed away that year. Currently I’m talking with a guy let’s see how it goes….
Physically this abuse affected my menstruation too I was blocked for years. Even to this day my cycle is a mess since 13 years old. Mother and daughter is like moon and stars if moon hates the starts they won’t the shine much.


And yeah present update : my mom does still mentally abuse me though ! She is such a boss. It’s more like things as you will never make this or that your dumb etc. but now I’m a grown up I know she is abnormal. I don’t pay much attention.


I know it’s long but I wanted to share what I went through so maybe new mothers who read this do not abuse your kids.. not worth it.


Sorry for my weird English English isn’t my 1st language.

[Anonymous]

My dad and mom didn't allow me wear certain clothes. My dad went along with what my thought was best most of the time and didn't really Care as along as I got good graded, stayed out of trouble, stayed away from boys and wasn't a lucky water. My mom was happy when I got good grades but not as strict as my dad about it if I got a low grade she'd encourage me to do better next time. My dad acted like it was a capital crime asking how I could get such a low grade, I guess it was cause he saw my potential but he was never as hard on my brothers who never cared about skl. My mom would show up to all my graduations and dance recitals, my dad has yet to be at one and just asks about my grades and if I got first place. He even made me stop dancing to focus on all which I understood. So my dad made me a person constantly seeking academic validation and I avoid getting seriously attached relationships with men because I have the preconditioned idea that I can't count on them while my mom disciplined me to think books aren't everything, I should be kind and polite to everyone and I should accept that I make mistakes. So I guess there was some level of balance i'd probably be stoic like my half sister if I didn't have my mom, my personality wouldn't be as bright. Because of my dad I cannot lie to the opposite gender like never, like if I see a dude it's like my dad yelling at Me, then I just spill everything. But I'm getting better at it I guess. My dad thinks a guy doesn't need all that high level braininess to be successful and just needs a skill they are talented at while girls need to be both pretty , smart and ladylike. Hence all my tennus talent went waste he thought i'd get buff. I understand his ideals but their had to be a better way to go by it other that scaring the crap out of me. Him and mom are still friends. U find him extremely awkward and exhausting to smile all the time and fake interest in his conversations. He still doesn't show up for anything in my life as long as it doesn't go wrong and reflects on him, he's completely invisible.

[petitedollbabee]

Dad would kick me up the butt or give me a pillow and make me sleep outside, mum would make me hold liquid soap in my mouth for 5 minutes before letting me spit it out, if I swallowed it then I had to have more soap and restart. Or mum would get a hard plastic heavy spoon out and spank me with it. There’s been maybe one or two times that she had actually slapped me across the face.

[jimmy2]

Wow are you ok

[petitedollbabee]

Yeah, those are very normal punishments where I’m from. A lot of kids had parents who would punish them worse than that.

[KrisPW]

Dad's hand or the dreaded wooden spoon. A couple of my brothers got a belt, but not often.

[Guy13]

The belt... one leather and one more like rubber. Neither one was fun !!

[BJP21]

I got the belt, hand, and grandmas wooden spoon.

[Kelly6]

By wooden spoon

[Nominal]

Have no discipline.