Am I a bad kid?

[eimandahelp]

ok so my parents are Muslim and I would change at school wearing crop tops and shorts today my dad found me in shorts and got mad at me an told me we were going to have a speech at home what do I do?

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ok so my parents are Muslim and I would change at school wearing crop tops and shorts today my dad found me in shorts and got mad at me an told me we were going to have a speech at home what do I do?
I'm not actually 24 I just don't know how to change it

[Avicenna]

I don‘t think you are a bad kid, but when you are a minor and love under your parents‘ roof you have to respect their rules.

[eimandahelp]

i know but they're also very mean I used a tampon and they thought I lost my virginity, and I shaved my legs when I was in 7th grade because I was embarrassed to look like a gorilla my mom pinned me to the ground and cut my hair I'm also not allowed to have sleepovers and I'm not allowed to choose my own style of cloths

[Avicenna]

OK, what your mom did is very problematic. I suggest talking confidentially to a counselor at school about the overall situation.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Tell them you're too old for them to boss you around and start acting on it...

[WhitneySnow]

No. You’re just expressing yourself which is very cool.

[bubblegunnn]

So.. u raised in a religious family?

[Guy13]

You are almost 25 and living at home ⁉️

[artsy_dragon]

You're 24, grow up and move out

[artsy_dragon]

Okay that's fine then and sorry for being so rude. I understand it is your religion but it is good you're expressing yourself!

[eimandahelp]

thank you, I didn't know what to do so I asked my counselor and she said if they hit me to go stay at a friend house, but I don't know what to do my dad isn't home yet and I'm freaking out do I not speak at all do I talk back do I ignore them I don't know what to do

[artsy_dragon]

Welcome and what country do you live in?

[eimandahelp]

california

[artsy_dragon]

Ah okay, I know it is more relaxed over there. I'm not sure what to do here sorry. I understand its hard

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, your parents are just stupid.

[panamared1]

Sounds rough