Am I weird for being alone almost all of the time?

[Anonymous]

Even the family friends around me I don’t even like hanging out with them as I don’t feel connected to anyone

Yes you are

No you’re not

[DaisyM23]

I was just wondering this about myself lol - i love my family and friends but i do spend most of my free time alone

[Asker]

Do you tend to go out alone too?

[DaisyM23]

No I don't go out alone but I'm at uni and all my close friends are from home, I have friends here but no one I'm THAT close with and when I see other friends with that closeness I want to have that feeling too, if that makes sense

[Asker]

I feel the same, I have friends/family but nobody I can say I’m close with or even feel that connection. It hurts sometimes.

[GreenLanternI0I]

No you are definitely not alone. I have exactly the same problem.

[Asker]

I don’t feel a connection with anyone in my life and it’s frustrates me sometimes

[GreenLanternI0I]

Well, personally for me, my escapes are my own digital bubble that I have created for myself, because I'm able to connect there with all the people who share exactly the same interests.
The biggest problem I have even to this day, is the Reality. Talking to people in a virtual world is one thing, but we are human beings and we desire physical human interaction and to tell you the truth even to this day (it has been almost 15 years now) I still haven't cracked the code for this particular problem.

[Asker]

I see.

Maybe our imagination just doesn’t align with reality I don't know. I always feel empty even if I’m doing things with others

[GreenLanternI0I]

I see it a bit differently. Even though this is not fair and plainly depressing, I understand why God or natural balance does what it does. Sometimes you need to have a single black sheep in a flock of white sheep, there has to be a reminder that white sheep are not the only thing that exists in this world. Same goes for existence of evil people. How can you possibly cherish and protect Good at any cost, if you never been attacked or experienced bad or how can you implement extremely high standards to keep people safe in the airplane, if there would be no accidents and people would never know or experience death and misery of those who suffered from it. Do you see what I'm saying. You are Necessary in this life and you are a MUST, even though you are surrounded by many non relatable people to you in any way shape or form.

[slatyb]

What do you want? Maybe you just haven't met your people.

[Asker]

I want to be able to connect with someone on a personal level, someone who understands me and is willing to be there for me. So far nobody has succeeded.

[slatyb]

How well do you fit into your community in general? Are there other people that share your interests?

[gary777]

no, im am. i means you can hang around in your undies