My best friend ghosted me should I unfollow her?

[Anonymous]

If my best friend ghosted me randomly and without explanation, should I unfollow her? Or would that be stupid/immature?

[bubblegunnn]

Yes thats immature..

People ghosting because they want to get away from someone who think they are toxic. Either way, when ur bestie ghosted u, she wanted the friendship to be over. Did u make a mistake to her recently? Cuz u can't start a fire without a spark

Thats why u also should get the explanation from her why she did that.. but for now, just give her space, dont contact her right away.. wait til a week before u start talking w her..

If she explained it to u and still dont want to continue bestie relationship, apologize to her if as long as u r together w her u made a mistake and made her mad, and then say thankyou for being ur friend..

[Asker]

I already asked her if I did something, and she said "no I'm just busy" which is clearly not the truth. I would've apologised if I knew I did something, but I genuinely can't think of what I've done. We met up once and had the best time, then she said we should meet more and then ghosted me.

[Asker]

She said we would have our birthdays together when we met up, but she then had her birthday without me and posted it on social media

[Asker]

She hasn't explained anything.

[bubblegunnn]

Yup that seems like she is not the immature one. And u already asked her yet she didn't give u make sense reason.. did u ask her why she unfollowed u?

Im so sorry to u on behalf of ur friends, this is the worst feeling in ur life. But on thebrighter side, i also feel good for u. Because this issue will make u a better person.. it has already given u a vision of what people u cannot called as friends..

[Asker]

Hi, thanks. No she didn't unfollow me but ghosted me. Stopped replying to me and had her birthday without me. Didn't wish me happy birthday on mine either.

Thank you girl. It hurt so much but I'm trying my best to make sense of it and move forward.

[bubblegunnn]

Ohh then u dont unfollow her.. cuz she didn't
I can feel u tho 🫂
Hopefully she will be normal and dont ghosts u anymore

[Guccigabbana18]

Yes, unfollow her if it hurts to see her on your page.

[OddBeMe]

Ehh, some of us interviewers do that. Then pick back up where we left off later.

[Asker]

What do u mean?

[OddBeMe]

Sorry meant introverts. Not sure if it’s bourbon or autocorrect lol…

But I ghost a lot. I shy away from emotional crap.

[Asker]

Yeah I was like, "interviewers?" haha

[OddBeMe]

Barbara walters ghosted me years ago. The bitch.

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, she doesn't sound like a best friend to me.