Why do I feel irritable with my friend? What do I do?

[Chelsdope0]

I’ve known her for years and we talk often enough. She’s a good friend to talk to and gives good advice.

She’s been kind of a bit clingy.. not too clingy but wants to talk more often and text more.. I feel like a bad person by being irritated by it.

I think I’m irritated by it bc she said some lesb things that made me uncomfortable. So it’s like I don't know how I feel about the friendship

I’m noticing that she’s starting to be a bit more clingy like when I have to go she says “noo don’t go” or if I didn’t text back she called.

I just think I personally don’t like that. I wanted a best friend but I don’t think I’ll make a good one bc I don’t like talking everyday or every week.

[Guy13]

You’re good. Her sexuality preferences and behavior are Self oriented. When someone gives the idea that they can’t control their emotion…always got to try to figure out what’s behind it…. coming on to me, etc……. No one can best friend that kind of feeling. BFF and Husband/Wife are both a difficult Find.

[Chelsdope0]

I don’t think she’s a “lesbian” but I don't know I just don’t think I want to be best friends with her specifically.. and I’m not saying she calls and texts me all day everyday but I feel like she wants to a bit more and I’m trying to slo it down

I also just feel uncomfortable when people try and get closer to me anyway

[Guy13]

Gotcha... Relationship is nothing but a perpetual Risk with gains and losses. We can be both loved and hated within the same sentence... this is more scary than Halloween...

[Chelsdope0]

Wait sooo what about my friend? I’m a bit confused

[Guy13]

Sorry. "Uncomfortable when people..." my reply was from that read. Sorry-I get in my own head sometimes.