Is it bad that Im happy my sister is dead?

[Anonymous]

My sister was never nice to me. Always calls me ugly, never was supportive, when I have a problem at school she's always sided with people who bullies me. She also would make fun of my music preferences like I told her Im a fan of Selena Gomez and she would say like oh you're a fan of her that woman is not pretty and annoying af and she would laugh at me. She also likes to talk behind my back. So 2 years ago she got depressed cuz she just gave birth and her husband was in jail and that probably makes her depressed she killed her own self. I felt relieved. And I dont miss her one bit although I wish she should have been nice if she was nice I would miss her

[MCheetah]

If she was a bad person to you, then it's understandable. "Family" only means something if they actually loved you. I know that for a fact.

You should try to have SOME empathy for her, considering she killed herself (as opposed to a car crash or accidental death or something), which might explain why she treated you so badly to begin with; she was suffering on the inside. But I don't know your family situation.

It just sounds like, if she took her own life, leaving behind an orphaned child, then it's pretty messed up and she was probably depressed for a very long time, and might not have even meant to hurt you. Depression makes people act out.

[Asker]

You are right. Her baby was here with us we are raising him

[Asker]

Is*.

[Paul09]

Sounds like karma caught up to her. In a way you'd think it's wrong what you feel and felt. But it's not. She sounded like a huge B. In the end she was the weak one , trying to bring you down to make herself feel better. Selena is a hottie! Unusual voice, but overall a great woman.

[slatyb]

No, it's not. You aren't responsible for your feelings. You feel what you feel. I'm sorry you didn't have a good relationship with your sister. She sounds very troubled. How was your home life?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Though your sister is family, it's natural to feel the way you do when people are cruel and wicked.

[abc3643]

No, it is not bad.