Is it bad that I hope my mom dies?

[Anonymous]

My mom is a real gigantic pain in my ass. Her nature is so bitchy and distasteful. Iiving with her is a living hell. And on top of everything she blames me for her fuck ups and mistakes.

I would Move Out but due to shitty circumstances I have no were else to go...

And yeah I'm venting my anger out...

Does anyone feel or experiencing what I'm going through...

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+1 y

I actually don't really wish for it to happen but damn she pitches my ass like anything...

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When she is stressed she throws her stress on me...

[Darknut123]

I know based on reading the above it may be asking a lot, but love her for who she is and really really try to work things out. I know nothing about the situation, but things happen in life and people just go about off of how life got them there. Things get complicated all on their own. Just make it right and make peace with it. You don't want to be standing her funeral putting her in the ground with a head full of regrets on things you should have said or done or what was said etc. That's a whole other animal that comes along with the pain.

[hahahmm]

Most likely she has some psychological issue that makes her do these things. And once you understand what those issues are it’s easier & you know it’s not really even about you. But yes, I have been very frustrated with my mom at times. You need to move out so you can control when/how much you are around her. Also once you make it clear that you won’t put up with certain behaviors she will most likely change.

[ghostqueen]

I have a whole list of people I wouldn't mind dropping dead. Obviously, it's not how you want to feel about a person, but if she's been bad to you it makes perfect sense. I have a good relationship with my mother but tons of other family members I want gone.

[Anonymous]

I used to think the same about my father, but after he got sick of cancer and died I felt horrible. You probably do not really wish that to happen.

[Harsh_5299]

Yeah, some wishes do come true and many people end up regretting them

[ThatPersonOverThere]

Well good news is that some day she will.
Bad news is that when it does happen you'll regret it.

As somebody who has lost many loved ones, I can promise you this... after their death you'll look back and realize how small the issues were that kept you apart, and you'll regret that you didn't fight harder.

Do what you feel is right, but you may consider forgiving for your own sake. Best wishes.

[Anonymous]

I didn't experience that but I can understand your pain but believe me her death won't make you feel better although she causes pain for you may be you need to find work and just move to another place but at the end don't hate her , look at her motive and you will know that she's a victim also don't look to actions , the motives is the key

[amitiel]

Wishing death on anyone is kind of a dick move. But it sounds more like you're just really frustrated with her and the situation and that's pretty understandable

[imsrk]

Yes. It is really terrible to think that way. If you can't stand her, better leave her and stay away from her on your own. But, thinking about anyone's death as such is really horrible.

[Cwazzycwafter]

I feel ya. Honestly if my dad died, I’m not sure I’d really feel anything for him.

[FenderMustango]

Have you sat down and talked to her about thw things you feel. Ask her what it is you do that makes her so stressed maybe it is something you can change.

[SirBarristanSelby]

Since you're imposing on her hospitality, voluntarily or not, you should at least make some effort to get along. But I get it, my dad drives me nutty.

[Nachowedgie]

I wish both my parents would die everyday. I've thought about killing them myself but then that'd just cause me trouble.

[Anonymous]

Does she beat you? If not may be she try to makes you perfect.

[Dreku]

Nope, as long as you don't cause it then its ok

[oldoldold]

Your 25 get a job and move out

[Prof_Don]

Who u going to live with when she passes away?

[scooogy]

I have that with my parents as well sometimes

[LunerBlood]

What does she do to you?