The guy who ghosted me and after that told me to delete his number has started to follow two old friends of me?

[Anonymous]

What does this meen?

[Anonymous]

It means he’s adding a whole bunch of women and trying to see who he can shoot his shot with. I had that happen once. The guy added me on Instagram and was trying to chat me up for about 2 days before I stopped responding because I couldn’t figure out who our mutual connection was and he wouldn’t tell me. Then the weekend rolls around, I hang out with my best friend, and she shows me this random guy who added her was the same who added me. I called him out and he had some jackass response. We both blocked him but yeah.

[Asker]

Look. My best friend (we dont talk anymore) said I know a nice guy for you. And I was like no Im not interested. Anyway by the time I started to like him. We have dated and sat more than 2/3 hours in the car only talking. After a while he also kissed me. But he was strange he ghosted me. I was with my best friend and she said hey he texted me this: he was asking her were she was. I said if he likes me he would message me not you. She said nooo he is trying to make you jealous he knows we are together.

I dont know why but i had the feeling my ‘best friend’ was fooling me. What would you think?

[Opinion Owner]

Wait so this guy was asking your friend where you were? But him and her were together? I’m probably way off or missing something lol regardless though I would cut them both off (which I’m guessing you did since you say you aren’t talking anymore). I just have such a short tolerance for drama and I’ve fully prioritized protecting my peace at all costs.

[Asker]

I didn't trust them both so I didn't talk with them both anymore. No he was asking her were she was. And I think this is strange. How can he like me and than suddenly dislike me?

[Asker]

Anyway she is telling me no we are just friends but something in me tells this is fishy

[Opinion Owner]

Ohh okay, that definitely is strange. Honestly I don't know how genuine he was about liking you in the first place, and you’ll probably disagree with that, but I’ve learned to judge men by their actions and not their words alone. Based off what he did, he’s really sneaky and fake. Fortunately all you did was make out and you didn’t give it up to him, because clearly he had no intention to stick around and get serious. Your friend is odd as well, like in a messy way. I’d be rid of them both if I were you.

[Anonymous]

He not interested in you
Interested in your friend. As simple as that.

[Asker]

I said that to my friend and she says no why is he than asking about you. She said. And than I fight with her because he ghosted me and wad texting her

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she is the reason he ghosted you.

[Asker]

I also think that

[Opinion Owner]

Brutal betrayed always come from your closer one.

Girl watch out.