A guy that ghosted me after sex keeps sending me friend requests after I delete them everytime?

[Billiegirl]

So last year I hooked up with a guy that had tried to hook up with me for a long time. I was in a relationship when he first started texting me so obviously I said no to his advances. But when my relationship ended, I decided to try to talk to this guy. Well, we ended up sending each other nudes and we decided to "hook up." Well, we ended up hanging out and he ate me out, I blew him, and we had sex. He only lasted a few seconds when I had sex with him and I was not judgmental or angry, we ended the night on good terms, and he left pretty soon after. I texted him the next day and he ghosted me. Obviously that stung a bit. Never heard from him until a month or two later, because i confronted him through text. He apologized and said that he'd just been having issues in his personal life and we left it at that. I unfriended him and never talked to him again. Since then, he's sent me a friend request almost every month and I just keep deleting them and not acknowledging it. So, if he disliked sex with me so much that he ghosted me, why does he keep trying to get a hold of me on social media? It was very hurtful and I felt so disrespected and ugly after he ghosted me like that after what we did. I just don't know why he's still sending me friend requests on social media? We had sex last summer and I've gotten like 6 six friend requests from him that I just keep deleting. I got another one tonight that I just deleted. Wtf?

[Anonymous]

So, we dont have the exact same situation but its also a guy i hooked up with that kept calling me and forcing me to see him (he’d say bullshit stuff like i miss you and i like you), which i know its just his dick talking.


Anyway, i blocked his phone number because i kept saying no and he would get pissed. He found me on snapchat and its the same thing, except this time he’s trying to act nice. After a while i blocked him there too.


Do the same thing. Block him, cut him off. Please dont ever see that guy again.

[Opinion Owner]

I ended up seeing him again before blocking him. I regret it so much. I was in a bad place. Im not saying you’d end up doing the same you’re probably smarter than me.. but woman to woman, just block him.

[Billiegirl]

I only had sex with him once tho and immediately after he ghosted me. I mean, if it was so bad with me that he ghosted, I don't know why he wants to get a hold of me on social media..

[Losalt]

He *could* be telling you the truth you know.
If he is then it has *nothing* to do with the sex.
And everything to do with it being difficult to have social contact with people when you have mental problems.

[20yearsolder]

He's hoping to taste your pussy again, evidently he really liked your blow job and your pussy must have felt amazing for him to only last a few seconds. He's just trying to get in your pants again

[Billiegirl]

If it was so good tho, I wouldn't gave been ghosted for months after the first time. Lmao

[spartan55]

It's not that he didn't like the sex, trust me. He is embarrassed that he performed so poorly. He is now looking for redemption.

[JakeS00]

He wants to ask for more sex probably.

[Billiegirl]

Why? If it was so bad for him that he ghosted me after the first time.

[JakeS00]

True. He could want to start over but he should respect your decision.

[Billiegirl]

What do you think was so bad about sex with me to be ghosted over?

[JakeS00]

I wasn't there so not sure. Maybe he was embarrassed about something or felt insecure.

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe you should block him. That’s harassing.