He ghosted me after I set healthy boundaries. Why is he still stalking me using fake accounts?

[Anonymous]

I set some boundaries with this guy because he was overly sexual. I told him to slow down and then he ghosted me for three weeks... so I blocked him. He's checking my profile on social media using fake accounts, plural! I know it's him because he slipped up. Started getting a bunch of spam texts too.

What the hell is his problem? He ghosted me so I assumed he was done.

[Summeroflove]

Well this is what immature people do because see narcissists and other dark personalities especially they feel entitled to invade your boundaries while also having double standards obviously you can never do the same to them.

Number one when these people don’t get what they want they go to the discard phase. These people though will always come back as well as will intentionally do things just to mess with your emotions. He’s probably obsessed with you at some level or another I mean it’s not really stalking to look at someone’s public accounts but it’s crossing the line making fake accounts.

People ghost when either you have served your purpose in their life and no longer need you/found someone else to use. The other reason is when someone finally puts boundaries up they get angry. These people don’t seek genuine connections tell him to leave you alone, stop messaging you, and leave your accounts alone. Otherwise you will take every possible legal action.

[SteveSmith1985]

Well, it looks like he still has some interest in you. He is clearly a shitty guy.

A decent guy wouldn't ghost you.

A decent guy wouldn't have any issue with you setting boundaries and telling him to slow down.

A decent guy would be creepy with fake profiles.

His problem? He's a shitty guy who does shitty and creepy things.

You can't always understand the motive. Sometimes there's no point in trying.

You do have all the information you need though. He has made it very clear.

You should be glad he ghosted you. This guy sucks, and you're better now that he's not in your life. Let him do whatever he wants with fake profiles. Just don't start talking to him again. He'll get bored eventually.

[Anonymous]

He’s obsessed with you… he was probably ghosting you to get your attention when the situation flipped back on him and you ended up blocking him instead. This caused him to freak out and get desperate.

[Fanfare690]

People who ghost are distracted... never said they lost feelings completly... rude yes!! Immature yes!! It's your choice

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Theyre perfect for each other

[ProbablyClueless]

I wish I could be more helpful to you, but honestly, this is just one of those situations where asking why is going to drive you crazy.

He's an emotionally unhealthy person; that's about as far as it goes. He's an emotional trainwreck. It's why he ghosted you. It's why he can't make up his mind to stay away.

You're dealing with an emotional trainwreck.

[Blunky]

Obsessive ghosts are the most annoying kind ghosts. Stick to your boundaries and hire Bruce Willis.

[Blunky]

Kind of ghosts*

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Why do you care? You seem to like him or his attention

[Asker]

I did like him, a lot! I'm disappointed on the way he acted after I told him to slow down. I'm wondering why he's lurking now that I'm not interested at all. I don't want the attention of a man that seemed to only think about sex.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

So you're just being petty and immature

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

he's probably very horny and inexperienced, he ghosted u cause he thot u wasn't interested. Try expressing to him what ur telling us