Tbh I want one or two kids. I'm not really into having a huge family because of how financially hard things are in this world these days and also the time, attention, crimes etc happening more nowadays. I also wanna devote my time and attention to my one or two children and be participant in their school activities and what not rather than having to worry about a toddler getting sick at home or other doctor appointments, and so much. I have lots of patience since I work with kids but I don't desire to have a huge family since I want downtime with my partner as well.
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I never wanted to have children, at least I'd want a daughter but I got accidently pregnant. I wanted to have an abortion and my bestie was actually going to drive me there but my ex husband (we were married at the time) came from work early and found out. He was always hoping to have a family and I always lied and said "me too". Anyways I didn't abort my son but I don't think his dad ever forgave me for almost aborting the baby.
Before and when we got married, my wife wanted 12. I said nothing other than "I love you". We had our first baby and she quickly ratcheted that number down to 6. Late in the 5th pregnancy (#4 was a stillbirth) she asked me if it was okay to be done. So our daughter turned out to be the last.
At least 2 children I think, as a replacement for the parents and being single child sucks.
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I honestly would want to have a few kids. Ideally, I'd like to work so my husband doesn't have to but also to help provide for the kids. If he wants the opposite dynamic, I'd be cool with that also.
No idea, I’ll say 3. Grew up with that and it was fun
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if I ever have children, it would have to be an even number of them, so that's either two or four children, but no more...
None.
The idea of raising them doesn't appeal to me and I didn't ask to be brought into this world and if they're anything like me, they'd prefer it too.
I want to have a total of 3/4 kids. I've always wanted two boys and two girls. But, I think I could settle for two boys and one girl. As long as my kids are healthy and we're able to live comfortably.
I'm about to have my 4th here in March and I'd love to have 2 more. And also be a surrogate once I'm done having to own kids.
I wanted 12… and all before the age of 30… but I’ll be 28 next year and I’ll be lucky to have one. After that I’ll likely adopt one more
I want a big fat 0 may change but i want to not have kids
3 to 5 is what I would want. At least 3, but no more than 5.
Already have 1 and I'm not planning to have anymore
As much as we feel comfortable with. It will be through adoption, so that probably factors into it.
None. Men have to pay child support in divorces - women do not.
0, i have a niece i’m godfather to and that’s enough for me
I would want 3
Ideally two, a boy and a girl.
A big ol goose egg
0I'll have 6, please! 2 of each.
Two. Four if second one is twins.
3 or 4
None. 0. Nada, nope!
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