People have taken me for granted for too long. I dont want to be a nice person anymore, I want to be good but also stick up for myself and put myself first from now on.
Making 'niceness' the center of your personality like i have will make you invisible and will make you a target for self-obsessed people willing to only use you for your gain.
Also dosent help that im a people pleaser
As 2023 approaches I want to start setting up healthy habits for myself, how can I do this?
By loving yourself first. Some habits could include a healthy diet and exercise routine. Time for meditation and time to be creative. So block out all those times on your calendar so when someone wants to use you it’s easier to say no and have a legit reason
Good question. Have a look at this article:
https://www.bustle.com/wellness/168653-11-signs-youre-too-nice-what-to-do-about-it
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You don't have to stop being a nice person. Just be a FIRM person. And be unyielding in your convictions. Some people might not like you. But they will have to RESPECT you.
Learn to say no if you don't want to do a favor or it doesn't benefit you.
Don't be daft.
Be a nice person, just not a naïve person, is all.
Don't let them change you just cut them off and move on
Learn to say No
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