Can I drop this friend? I don’t trust her because of what she does with men (read below)?

[Anonymous]

She has her ex-boyfriend come and take care of her pets when she’s out of town with her boyfriend - she told me her current boyfriend “knows” about it and is totally cool, another time she told me about this hot guy she hung out with and went to a museum with while she had a boyfriend, but again swore they didn’t do “anything” and then once I asked how things are going with her boyfriend and she said she likes another guy in her class. Also we took personal training together and she just wanted to go because the trainer was hot, and was otherwise inconsistent with her fitness so she’s not that into working out. She does all this while in a committed relationship. Also she told me her ex was boring and she wanted an open relationship. SMH. And I once had a loss in my family a week before Christmas and she just said “sorry” about it when we met in person.

[Anonymous]

She seems a woman who is disloyal and disrespectful toward men. When I judge a woman as a romantic partner I also judge the kind of friends she has. Clearly if my crush hang out wih women like your friends it will be a red flag for me.

[Asker]

I just blocked her everywhere. I won’t have a talk. I am just kinda done with this shit. Lol!

[es20490446e]

Where's that gut feeling of yours mainly coming from?

[Asker]

I don’t trust her. And she never happy with anything it seems - like nothing is good enough for her.

[Asker]

Oh and once she checked her boyfriend in at our gym ($200/month membership) and basically cued for me to leave right as I’m in between sets…. so they can have time together…and my own gym I’m paying lots of money to work out at.

[es20490446e]

You simply don't like this person, do you?

[Asker]

No I don’t really anymore. I think she’s selfish and rude.

[es20490446e]

Well, I don't like selfish and rude either :P