Do I need to stay away from this friend?

[Anonymous]

I have known her since school, she was my longterm school friend. When I was in school I was shy and confused and could not make good friends so I accepted her cold behaviour. She was always cold and unwelcoming but at that stage I did not understand that. When I moved for higher education in another city. We stayed connected she was on the phone always giving me time but she was never warm in person, always self centred, I ignored it. But after so many years I realised she never honored me as friends. She does not post about me on social media or does not appreciate me in public that much. I realised she treats me like a formal friend where I treat her like my best friend. For last time I thought I should give chance to this friendship as we have been friend for 20 years, I told her about my issues with her, she just called me to fight over that and disrespected me, she has done this several times that why I was not confrontational with her. If I bring any issue into conversation she always reminds me what she has done for me which my family and other friends say that are bare minimum. I feel like I do not like her anymore. I do not like sharing good news with her. I feel invested in my friendship with an undeserving person who did not respect me as her close friend let alone my best friend

[rosemilk]

i get the long term friendship blues, i have a friend who i've known for 20 years too and it's hard for me to even hang out with her because i feel like it's a constant competition (not from me, she is the one who sets out that vibe). eventually, for your own health, you have to phase out this friendship. just stop telling her about your life so there will be no more fights or disrespect. let her go

[Paris13]

B e Civil with her only. Back Off From That Kind of Person. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks To Gag. xxoo

[boggboss]

Why is this so complicated just end the friendship lol

[Asker]

She has been my friend for 20 years. It is not easy for me. I have known her to be my best friend

[boggboss]

But she is a ahitty friend its not like she has ever been a good friend if u want to keep shitty people in your life thats fine but then what are u asking here she will not change because she feels no need to chamge as u accepted this behaviour for 20 years

[Asker]

I understand now. Thank you for your insight.

[Plugs]

Why are u forcing it. I don’t understand

[Asker]

If you do not understand the situation then why are you posting Opinion.