I'm 25. I used to live by myself. A year ago I started living with my abusive hateful mom and thief brother (who stole my savings money) again since I lost my job and I had no where to go.
A couple weeks ago, I've learned I have lymphoma (lymph cancer). I verbally and physically fight with them everyday and we hate each other they mentally drains me but I have no place to go
Any suggestion?
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I'm so sorry. That really sucks. The karmic wheel may turn slowly but it does usually get around so who knows.
Any idea what can I do?
Wow, that is brutal! Is there no other family members you can stay with? You're going to have to find someone, even if it's a family friend that you can share a place with while you get back on your feet.
We are immigrant family in U. S. I have no family member except them. Also I don't have really friends. Only way is start working again but I'm not sure if I can work +40 hours pay my bills and get treatment at the same time? I might will have surgery too.
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I feel for ya. Looks like the only way is to clear the air with your mom and brother and at least tell them you can't be at each other, anymore. You have to be able focus on you and getting better, they can't be doing you wrong in the background.
It may fall on deaf ears, but hopefully there's a little compassion left in them...
I already told them we cannot be together and I definitely don't wanna see them rest of my life. However they WILL keep going doing wrong to me. They're not gonna change. That's what I know for sure.
Well, good luck to you and hope you get better.
I am so sorry :( do you think you could work at all so that you could find a roommate or maybe you could live with a friend?
Yes only way is work but how come I can work +40 hours a week pay my bills and get treatment at the same time? I might will have surgery too.
Try to find a roomie so that you could only have to pay 400 dollars a month that’s the only escape
Try to find a roomie online
I live in Miami. Miami room rent prices are 1600/1800$ now. I can make barely 2500$ by myself 😞
You could get maybe an apartment/house with 3 roomies