My dream was always to have my baby at she 26. If I’m pregnant this year my baby will be born when I’m 26. I get jelous when I see women with baby. I feel like a loser as I go grocery shopping while ALL women are with babies. I’m not a party girl that wants never have babies. I’m a serious women, I cook clean my aparment, I’m a mom with baby not girl that wants be free party. Some days I cry, I stare at baby stuff at the store, I want be happy holidays with my baby celebrating, I would feel ready financially by mid or end of this year to have baby. I don’t want hear any men say never have a baby. Lol I already know men will all say to not have a baby. I want by baby boy 👦 🥰 move to a new big apartment end of this year as well for me and baby.
I've had a baby fever earlier then you, but it has nothing to so with how old I was, but with whom I was with. I found a wonderful caring girl, made her my wife and now we have a baby girl.
Do you have someone you want to have that baby with? Try to start working in that direction and get ready to accept that it might take a little longer to find a guy, get to a place in your relationship where you two are both ready for a kid (it takes A LOT of talking things out about paranting tactics, finances, house chores and so on to have a long lasting successful relationship/marriage).
I personally believe that it is so much worth it to take a few more years to develop that with someone and in return get healthy marriage, not to mention the benefits it has for a baby, that too should be taken into account because after all.. getting a baby is not like getting a puppy in a way that "I want it, I'll get it now and figure things out as I go".
Lastly, I want you the best of luck with what you choose to do. 😁
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My wife had our first child at 26. She was 25 when we married.
If you want one, what you are you and your husband waiting for?
If you are single. Why don't you find a husband first. Are you one of these career women that make career your priority and life and you'll get married (if ever) at age 30... you know because marriage and kids hold you back from this "career" which is supposedly the most important thing you'll ever do.
Girl you are young. Yes it’s okay to have baby fever, I mean I do. Younger woman are pregnant with their first, second or even third kid (s). I know I need to find a boyfriend first. The guy I like hasn’t really come to me and said hey let’s go out. I asked him out but he said he was talking with someone. I see him on dating apps ever since then and on social media as a friend suggestion. I don’t see him anymore, but it would just be easier for us to swipe on each other and end this madness. Next time I see him on the app I think I’ll just send a “compliment” and see what happens. Fingers crossed for me!
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I didn't have kids when I was 26 and I still don't have kids. My mother had my sister in the year she turned 26. It's ok to wanting to have a baby but just remember than having kids is a huge responsibility and it isn't always fun.
For now, enjoy your life and find a boyfriend who wants to have children too. That is, of course if you're single.
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I was 26 when I had my first baby. At 23, I was certain I didn't want kids. At 24, I was unsure. At 25, I was willing to consider it... got married & pregnant all at once. I couldn't wait to have many many more babies!!! lol
I'm 26 and having my 4th but it's only cuz I started so early. If I got to choose I probably would have started at like 24 instead of at 17. But I've always have baby fever not sure it ever goes away even after having a baby
I have never had baby fever 😂 and im almost 24. I don’t even want kids ever. 😂 girl live your life. A kid is a huge ass commitment. It’s not fun and games. Its a giant responsibility
We are planning to have kids at about that age. The only friends we have that have babies waited till one or both parents were about that age to have kids as well.
Well if it makes you feel any better I’ll be 25 this year and have no kids either, not even a boyfriend…I’m so scared I won’t find someone in time to have a child in my late 20s😞
You be seeing too many females with kids and it’s making you want one. Ask any of them how difficult it is raising a kid and that will change your mind
I had baby fever at 25 and sometimes i cried and got angry knowing I wasn't pregnant or had kids fast forward I fell pregnant at 36 with my first baby
Right before Christmas Cake status? it's okay, a woman should have a maternal instinct.
I definitely have and have had baby fever for very long. But I’m taking it one step at a time. Need to have sex first I’m still a bloody virgin 😭
Luckily I'm equiped with the tools to help you with that.
I was pregnant at 25 and again at 28.
Phew no, I'm 27 and have yet to get pregnant... 🤞 let's hope it stays that way
We had our first when we were 25.
i am glad we had all our kids before we turned 30.Find someone and go on have babies etc don’t postpone it..
Hey stop being a cry baby. Get with your man and try for it
My wife was pregnant at 16. It was a great time. Love pregnancy sex.
So having a baby is going to NOT make you a loser? Go adopt one then. There are plenty of kids who need homes.
You dont need money to have babies you only need will
I get pregnant 30
No, since I don't want kids. I'm 33
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