I am the oldest and I really wanted to study abroad because I love to travel and experience different cultures. They told me it wasn’t safe (this was before the pandemic). But my sister got to go because she was in a bad relationship. Is that fair? Am I wrong to complain?
Hmm, I presume that you are talking about the Covid-19 outbreak and that would make the year 2019 I presume.
Now, taking your age (30-35), that would have made you be somewhere between 26 and 31 years of age, right?
My question is therefore: Why would you even need the approval of your parents to go abroad since at that time you were in your late twenties?
You could have gone abroad without your parent's approval unless you wanted them to pay for your stay abroad.
Now, in terms of equal treatment, no, it does not sound fair but you have also to consider a number of factors that you fail to mention in your question.
It doesn't sound fair, but I don't know if there is more to this story.
Sometimes parents make decisions that we do not understand until later. This may be your case here.
Perhaps, it boils down to a money thing.
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My parents did this for my older brother
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