Why is she telling me personal things about her life?

[Anonymous]

my boss was telling me personal things about her life.

i dont mind i'm just curious why she does it.

like how her step father used to touch her when she was younger after she told me this she was like i dont tell many people this dont tell anyone i told you.

[Rosexøxø]

COME ON DUDEEE

lol so maybe it is a turn on to hear that, but for real don’t get like that!

It’s obviously pretty raw for her still, to mention it, especially if it’s with other things that seemed to bother her.

I don't know, you just said that so directly, it makes me think you don’t care about her- she could be trusting of you, so just don’t play with her like that🤦‍♀️.

She could be trusting you,

or she could be Venting,

See what she shares; it’ll determine where it can go.

If she shares a lot of sexual things, you can see that as her testing the waters, and you can consider making some sort of advance.

That’s risky though, considering she’s your boss, but yolo as well? 🤷‍♀️

keep a clear mind though…

so you can better interpret the signs, and not misread it, and end up with no job and no girl.. 😬

Best to you.

Could mean lots of things.

Could always ask her.

[Asker]

no its not a turn onto hear that just curious why she shares things like that with me

[Rosexøxø]

Oh I thought you said

“ I like how…”

😂😭😭😭

Eternal crying lmao

Seriously, just ask her or wait it out and engage the conversation to see how it goes.

If you don’t want to lose your job, ask her upfront, and keep things business-ethical.

If you let that lady get all up in her emotions, she could fire you 😬😬😬👐

Very unstable.

[Asker]

i understand i'm just curious if she did not want me to get up in her emotions.

why did she tell me perosnal things

[Rosexøxø]

Who knows what she handles as a boss? Maybe she just got down bad that day and let it slip out?

I don't know maybe see sees you as friendly?

Let me say for men it can be 4 basic options

For women it can be 100 possibilities

Friendship encourages that, so consider asking if you really want to know 🤷‍♀️

Try to guess or with time give us more context that you receive from her? Idk🤷‍♀️

[Rosexøxø]

We would all be guessing here, just as much as you 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

i dont want to look stupid by askingw hy do you share these things with me

[Rosexøxø]

:[ well it’d be how you asked it that made the difference, but considering you DONT know why she has said any of this and you’re not a mind reader,

You’d be limiting yourself to the “looking stupid” section on the stupidOmeter because you’re just treading and really thrown into those waters.

Asking would be like reaching for a line

But I don't know maybe more fun to guess.

You can always wait and see 🤷‍♀️

Maybe you’ll guess right

[Rosexøxø]

Maybe it doesn’t even matter and you can just *shift* it (things/ the situation) in to your own hands 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

hopefully

[Rosexøxø]

Here’s to hoping 🤞

[Asker]

thanks maybe i'm just overthinking

[Rosexøxø]

🤷‍♀️

[Wise4myage]

Dude, that is very weird that she would be reveal such personal info. Id be cautious if I were you.

[Asker]

i understand just curious why cautious?

[Wise4myage]

Because she is your boss ffs.

[Asker]

i know i just think it's nice she shared with me