Can Somebody help me please?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone! im andrea from UK i have a ex-friend on virtual she is sometimes really mean on me and she broke up with me she select my enemy to friend and they now leaking my old photos what can i do? or how can i make up with her?

[SteveSmith1985]

Holy shit. No don't make up with her if she's leaking your old photos. That's a really messed-up thing that she's doing. If she can be mean like this, that's a shitty person, and an abusive person. Definitely don't make up with her. This bitch is abusive. That's way more than "mean."

I know that they have passed laws in many countries that were specifically meant to deal with ex's posting intimate pictures of their ex without their consent. I'm in Canada, and I know some people have been convicted for that here. And had to pay huge settlements in civil court too. But these are very new laws.

Do you have any idea if you've got laws against "revenge porn" in the UK? (you probably do)

This is not some minor bullshit between ex's. This is beyond "the regular" shit that can get ugly after a breakup. I think you should consider getting the law involved if you can. What she's doing to you is wrong, and you should put a stop to it. By nailing her to the fucking wall. You don't have to put up with this. And you shouldn't. But definitely don't make up with her. Keep this bitch out of your life. Nobody who is decent would ever post/share their ex's pictures.

So, whether it's reporting what she's sharing as "non-consensual" wherever she's sharing/posting your pics, or calling the non-emergency police number and filing a police report. YOU HAVE THE UPPER HAND HERE. She can't do this if you don't let her. Don't let her.

I'm really sorry this is happening to you! 🙂

[Guy13]

I don’t think there is much you can do. You made some bad judgments and sometimes 💩 happens from them.

[loveslongnails]

Are the photos of a sexual nature? That's illegal now in the US, don't know about the UK. Why do you want to make up with her?

[Asker]

literally its my childhood photos and really i dont know something pushing me to her, she is my friend about 3 years

[loveslongnails]

Doesn't sound like she's worth being friends with.

[Asker]

thank you for your suggestion and advice but i want to try my luck one last time :)

[loveslongnails]

Luck has nothing to do with it. The question is "how could you ever trust this person again" ?

[SnowedIn]

Are you in contact with her?

[Asker]

yes and no i have her our phone number but i deleted when we broked up with her, but ik her social media adresses

[SnowedIn]

maybe reach out via social media with an "I'm sorry" in order to start the conversation?

[Asker]

I don't think she will understand this because they made peace with my enemy, there is nothing we can't do to each other and the people around her underestimate me.

[SnowedIn]

Well, you asked how you can make up with her. You have to start somewhere. That's going to involve being in contact with her.

[Asker]

tysm!

[SnowedIn]

yavw! Sorry I wasn't more help.

[Preeti161101]

Are photo normal or..

[Asker]

Its normal photo i dont like sexual photos

[Preeti161101]

Don't care if normal