My mother is trying to convince to give up on trying to look for commitment because things have changed too much.
That at best just find a boyfriend, live with him, have kid and if things won't work out... I can easily break up and we go our separate way but at least I would already have my child. LOL
So basically be another single mother with even fewer options in the dating pool, already ruined with a kid from another man? Then what, another temporarily live-in relationship, another break-up and nothing lasting?