How do you deal with angry drunks?

[Anonymous]

I’m only ever affectionate or sleepy, sometimes sappy… how do people really drink then get mad? 😭😭

[RavVid]

In wine truth is an old saying. Alcohol suppresses our neo-cortex suppression. I might be angry but not show it because my neo-cortex stops me from outwardly showing that. If a person has a lot of anger in them then they will be an angry drunk. In vino truth (veritas).

You cannot deal with them. Just safeguard yourself. Drunk girls can be just as angry and aggressive as drunk guys. In some cases drunk angry girls rope a guy into it.

I had this 4 hrs ago at a street cafe over coffee. OK he was a druggie but same thing. He wanted my cigs I said no. He started to insist and I said no again. He got very angry and grabbed a wine bottle of water from the table and held it by the neck waving it around. Fortunately he just smashed it to the ground.

5 min later he was back. This time he grabbed my empty coffee mug waved it around and smashed it to the ground.

Don't attempt to deal with them. They are dangerous. My example is not a good one to follow (but I am highly over street druggies demanding money etc off people).

I am quite lucky not to have got a bottle through my head or be glassed by the neck of the bottle.

[Asker]

She’s not physically aggressive just very moody. And it’s funny because when I’m sober everyone always views me as the one who is disagreeable and aggressive. Maybe I’m just too honest and firm in what I believe so they read it like that lol. Cuz I’m super nice and silly drunk.

[RavVid]

Quite possibly honesty and firmness could make you seem disagreeable and aggressive to some.

:) I have seen girls being sympathetic, validating to an upset girl. Say she was totally right and the other person was so wrong and out of court. After the upset girl has left, then they say 'What did she expect? Of course her boyfriend rightly dumped her'.

Kudos to you in being honest and firm in what you believe. But I could see that not being appreciated in girl world. Don't change though.

Still think it's best to stay away from angry drunks. Yesterday at the cafe a girl started breaking glass for no apparent reasons. then went to another cafe and broke glass there.

There is something a bit pyscho about angry drunks. Like you I'm a good drunk and love the world.

[ShiftingMonke]

I've been a bartender and a bouncer on and off for almost 10 years.

How I dealt with them was asking politely yet firmly it's time to pay the tab. I never had any issues, I much preferred verbal de-escalation because my face was my meal ticket.

I myself am not an angry drunk; I'm a rude drunk, who thinks he's funny, while being effectively harmless. I don't get drunk often, but still.

I'll say this much- people who say 'whiskey makes me fight' or 'tequila makes me horny' are liars and fatmouths. They use their preferred liquor to insulate themselves from the responsibility of their actions; that's why we hold drunk drivers accountable, even if they're sober in court.

[MementoMori777]

No lie angry drunks should just stop drinking, if drinking makes you angry I don't see how it can be enjoyable to someone