Does it seem like a good reason for a man to leave me?

[Akam93]

He left me cause I have zero social life besides one friend. And I'm always negative about myself.

[PeterLegg91]

Fuck him I say , that's your life and your choice, doesn't affect him he can still see his friends etc be social

[Guy13]

Is this Florida again? Zero social life as in real world commitments...

[Akam93]

Yes it is. He left me for those 2 reasons.

[Guy13]

Well damn. The responsibility one I can get. He knew you were fragile going in.-Hell, all women are fragile so he knew that going in too. Was he good to you up to that Flip Switch moment?

[Akam93]

Well of course he was. He was always good to me. He just couldnt take my negativity cause it was to much for him and he wants a positive life and a positive person. But the one thing I couldnt take was him saying other girls are pretty knowing I was insecure about my looks.

[Guy13]

Yeah, that was not smart of him. That does tell you the truth though. It is bad enough to take the time to notice but then to vocalize it is not…. not a girl or guy that I would feel comfortable settling down with.

[Akam93]

I can understand the negativity part about myself. Cause I do beat myself up about how I am and my looks. I'm not exactly a beauty queen. It's just terrible spilling out my soul to him and then him turning around leaving especially telling me he saw me in his future.

[Guy13]

Damn…you know sometimes as guys it’s better to shut up and listen. Damn no need to overplay one’s hand which is what he did.

[Guy13]

You both on here still?

[Akam93]

Well I took a week off from here after he left me. I wasn't myself for a few days he blocked me on here so yes we are. Now I'm kinda getting better. It's just I feel like an idiot we talk for 2 months and talked so much about our future and now it's gone. He was a perfect man for me also. :(

[Guy13]

You never know as Block Unblock Emoji Block then left unblocked digital dating processes. Who knows.
Absence and heart grows fonder..,,

[Akam93]

I just hate all of it right now. I wasted my time I feel like.

[Guy13]

Did anyone else meet and get attached?

[Akam93]

To him? Not that I know of. He seemed like a decent guy. He was always honest with me.

[Guy13]

He get to know whole family too?

[Akam93]

Well not exactly. We live a great distance so not like he could come up here and visit me. I wanted him to meet them when he was gonna visit me.

[Guy13]

Gotcha. See where things are March 25...

[Akam93]

Why March 25th? Lol

[Guy13]

🔮

2 weeks to miss you. 2 weeks for the 125.00 hopper ✈️ to see if this is really worth it in person….

[Akam93]

It's already been a week and I haven't heard from him. I doubt I will even though we got back together once I just dont know.

[Guy13]

Yeah, live life…

[Akam93]

That's what I plan to do. Hopefully your life is doing better. :)

[Guy13]

My life at the present moment is "not terrible". Yeah, can't complain right now. The 70s and 80s setting in and it won't be long... My yard bulbs are everywhere.

[Akam93]

Well that's better than the last time we spoke cause you were grouchy. Lol have a girlfriend yet?

[Guy13]

Yes and I had one officially around Christmas too. End of the year sucks for me work wise... if I don't get that right then the first 6 months of new year are hell.

[Akam93]

Well considering your job it sounds stressful. Especially from what you told me.

[SnowedIn]

The no social life, no, not a good reason although I could understand it.

The always negative? Honestly, yes, I can. You've read my responses on this site before -- I'm pretty level headed and can generally find good in anything. But if someone is going to be negative all the time then I'm probably going to end a relationship. A relationship cannot have someone who always negative about themselves. It just won't work. That said, the person has to leave graciously and thoughtfully, but, the short answer to your question is yes, that's a legit reason.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Anyone can leave for any reason and all of them are equally valid. Accept it and try to move on. If you're letting something like that hold you back from pursuing a relationship, keep the first sentence in mind. Like Nike, "Just Do It".