Should we stick to making female friends?

[HappyWoman34]

it seems like most men don’t want to just be women’s friends, even when that’s all we want. Guys have ulterior motives for being extra nice and attentive to you. Is this almost always true in all situations? If it is, are my bestie and I better to make female friends than male ones, if all we want is friendship?

[serious]

"it seems like most men don’t want to just be women’s friends, even when that’s all we want. Guys have ulterior motives for being extra nice and attentive to you. Is this almost always true in all situations?"


It is totally false.

[Anonymous]

You are 34 you can complain about men with your old lady friends. Guys want a young woman, so they are not looking for you anyways.

It is not a lost and no will care. Do as you please.

[HappyWoman34]

Well, I say good luck finding someone half your age who isn’t after your money 😊

[HappyWoman34]

Hahahahahaha

[Opinion Owner]

I already have one.

[HappyWoman34]

Yeah right.

[HappyWoman34]

If you really had one, you’d not be on here bragging about it. You’d be with her.

[Opinion Owner]

I know it's hard for you to believe, but women from other countries want a guy who treats them with respect. Instead, they see abusive patriarchal men who want nothing to do with them. The woman I was 20 when I met her five years ago.

She was clean and a virgin. She had never met a guy who was sensitive before. The guys in her country could kill her and not go to jail. She was never going to get married until she met me. You are used to guys kissing your ass and buying you drinks.

The only thing I had to do for her date her out for a regular romantic date. And I was a broke college student with no money at the time. I love foreign women; they don't make life too complicated. No games. Such traditional values and family values. the elegance. The simplicity, no playing stupid mind games with them. I love it.

Some women don't care about money as much as you do. Of course, there are scams, but that is only guys who pay for agencies to speak to women via email. I went there and found her. Geomaxxing. I know you probably "oh, she's using you for money or a green card. She didn't even want to leave the country and wanted us to stay to take care of her family. She only moved for me. And we are still together.

But a bitter old lady would tell her I am using her. Nope, all did was treat her like a human being, and I got her. She has a sense of humor and is not a princess who needs a guy to always say nice things to her too which is a plus.

[Opinion Owner]

I was not even bragging. You made false claims and assumptions about me. I was just correcting you.

[HappyWoman34]

Lol well you know nothing about my history with men and what I value. Sounds like she’s not in an equal relationship.

[HappyWoman34]

I’ve found someone from overseas too. Religious like me and a virgin. I didn’t like the filth that I found in my own country, so I found someone better.

[HappyWoman34]

I’m sure there are great men in my country. I just didn’t meet any.

[Opinion Owner]

Men go where they are treated best. That is why men don't want to be your friend or anywhere near a Western woman.

If you were worth it, a man would be your friend.

Men don't put up with assholes or people's bs for something we want. We go where we are treated best to women who keep up their looks.

[HappyWoman34]

Again, you can’t pass judgment on someone you’ve never even met or seen in person.

[HappyWoman34]

I’m done with this conversation.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, I have more male friends than female ones. I feel like I have more in common with guys. They are more chill and there's less drama.

[Jennz6]

Tomboy?

[Opinion Owner]

@Jennz6 Not really

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s a challenge finding some people just for friendship. Usually it’s found in a shared activity

[Jennz6]

Yes, girl power, let’s stick together

[Anonymous]

Ok go ahead. Better for men too