How do you deal with people who remind you of your mistakes or setbacks? Especially if they’re in your direct circle of people?

[Anonymous]

[SpanishRose]

If they are doing it for any other reason other than to help you not make the same mistake kick them to the curb.. and don't look back.

If they are genuinely trying to give you sound advice though accept the constructive criticism.

[Asker]

Well one time I had a boss say to me “I don’t want to you forget what happened in March.” She wrote me up because she expected a project to be done in 2 weeks…which is taking the team 7 months to do now.

[SpanishRose]

That's not genuine help. That's a boss on a power trip.

[Asker]

I fucking hate her. She’s probably jealous of me and I didn’t do anything to really deserve this. I’m working tons of overtime too with no pay.

[Asker]

I had a health crisis one day and had to miss a meeting and take the day off and she mocked me by saying “if you’re having personal health issues then you should let me know if you can’t work or need to do this on a part time basis.” She’s a bitch.

[SpanishRose]

Wow she sounds fucking awful. Is there anyone above her bitch ass that you can maybe write a grievance against her?

[Asker]

Yeah but I think complaining about her will get me fired. She’s SO stupid and replaceable too. Once we had a lunch outing as a team and she gave me a hard time about being late when I showed up…but before the lunch she told me she was gonna cancel it since not everyone could come. So that knocked off a lot of time for me to travel there. She DOES NOT apologize. Everything that does go wrong is on YOU.

[Asker]

I got there and she was like “where do you live? What kind of transportation did you need to take?” And gave me an attitude. Bitch! I live 20 minutes by car ride and 50 minutes walking.

[SpanishRose]

I'm sorry that really sucks. I don't know if you're able to look for a new job and then on your last day just let her have it lol

[Asker]

I might just go to an attorney. I hate her and want her to honestly suffer from this. I hold 0 remorse for anything I could say about her and I’m usually a very forgiving and understanding person.

[SpanishRose]

Some people don't deserve your forgiveness or kindness 💯 I hope it works out for you!

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

I would literally throw hands with them on the spot

[boggboss]

By asking them why