How do I not be socially awkward?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I never know the right thing to say to people. I am going in to an event to meet a lot of new people in two days and I'm terrified.

I don't know when a joke is being told and I often miss laughing cues. I suck at making conversation and making jokes.

I often stumble on my words and I am not quick witted at all. I'm not even quick to respond to a regular conversation.

How can I stop being so awkward before this event?

[gorydetails]

Not everyone has to be the jokester. The key to conversations is the secret that people love talking about themselves. If you want to have a conversation with someone ask them about their life. What do they do for work? What do they like to do in their free time? Don't make it sound like an interview but approach each interaction with genuine curiosity.

[Asker]

Thanks. I'll keep that in mind.

[SomeRandomGuy89]

You can't fix 30-35 years in two days.

You gain confidence by doing things. You have to interact with people more. This event is good for you. Subject yourself to discomfort and do it everyday.

It's honestly the only way you'll ever get better.

[Asker]

Thanks. I will try. It's hard but I know it's necessary.