Girls, Should single men pursue surrogacy?

[Anonymous]

Surrogacy isn't a topic that is commonly talked about and most people can't afford the costs and expenses associated with the process. With that said, should a man be allowed this Gift?

That is not my place to answer

Yes, Everyone has the right to happiness and family

No because I feel that children is only for the woman alone to enjoy and Raise

[Haha456]

how do you ask single men (who can't afford it) if they would pursue it?

you can't pursue something you can't afford.

besides having to pay the surrogate a huge sum of money, there are medical check ups/ ultrasounds, injections, hospital stays / treatments- that are not covered by insurance. Not only this, since you're a single parent, you likely will also need to pay for a baby sitter to take care of the child after it is born.

meanwhile you're talking to a bunch of broke guys who could barely afford a housewife.

[TenderFantasy]

If you want it and you can afford it, I'd say go ahead. But these days, it's really not hard to find a woman that wants children too so..

[Asker]

It's not easy for a man to get a woman. Especially if he is 5'2 and weighs 100lbs that is (1,58cm) and (50kg), small tiny body built

[Asker]

Women want at least 5'8 guys and weighs 120lbs , medium body built, average muscle mass.

If a man has no muscle mass at all it's a red flag for most girls especially if he's Short

[Asker]

Correction
Puny built, Short, no muscle mass

[TenderFantasy]

Well I'm 5''2 and a little more than 100 lbs. Doesn't bother me. If I saw a guy like that, I don't think it would be a problem really. I've dated guys shorter than me believe it or not. We're not all shallow. Especially as we get older.

And if you really want a child, then yeah, maybe adopt or do surrogation. Sometimes, it's more affordable abroad to do it. If you're not blessed vertically, what can you really do? I've seen really obese people find love, I am sure you can as well. Just don't give up and don't be a jerk?

[Haha456]

there's plenty of poor foreign women looking to marry an American for Us citizenship. And yes, they will happy a baby with you. As long as you let her marry you for US citizenship and send money back to her impoverished family every few months. Otherwise expect her to eventually divorce you for another man after she gets her greencard. And then your child to be without a mother.

This type of stuff happens all the time.

[LiamJHayden]

If they do, they'd better carefully check the laws where they live. In California, for example, if the surrogate mother is also the egg donor / natural mother, she can terminate the contract at any time. The dude trying to get a child of his own could instead end up with 18 years of child support and limited visitation.

[SomeRandomGuy89]

I don't think children should be raised in single parent households.

[Adaeva]

That is the only way for a man to own his children. If he is married and has a child with his wife and she is a good wife, it doesn't matter that she, not he, owns the children. Regardless, the husband doesn't own their children; the wife does and the husbands rights are 100% conditional upon the wife sharing her rights.

[jshm2]

They do.

What planet are you living on?

[Agape93]

Sure. Long as you're not a creep.

[gorydetails]

Children need a father and a mother.

[Asker]

True, but it's hard to find a girl especially if you don't meet their criteria of what they think a man should or shouldn't be.

[Asker]

Especially in the looks department

[Asker]

I'm fortunate to be handsome enough. blessed actually

[TenderFantasy]

They do already. It takes two to have a baby. The only way the child wouldn't have one is if it was given up for adoption or it was a sperm donation for the woman's side. But yeah, typically, a baby is formed when both a man's gametes and a woman's gametes meet and fertilize.

As to being in the child's life, well now, THAT' should be easy if especially the people who created said baby was MATURED and responsible! Anyway.

[gorydetails]

@TenderFantasy Well no shit, Sherlock. Children implies after birth too.

[TenderFantasy]

1. Yeah so why did you say what you said in your answer if it was a given then? I don't think I misunderstood anything.

2. You cannot control others. If they want to be part of a baby's life that's their thing/choice. Cannot force!

[gorydetails]

@TenderFantasy If you’re not going to be part of your child’s life, keep your legs closed

[TenderFantasy]

Or keep your pants zipped up, I agree.

[CB-Raido-Time]

I would own a orphanage if possible.