Do you give money to your family when they need it?

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Exterminatore · Accepted Answer

It depends on why they need it and what they intend to use it for, but generally I don’t loan money, I just give it.

“Give to him who asks of you, and do not turn away from him who wants to borrow from you.”
‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5‬:‭42‬ ‭NASB2020‬‬
So far as this goes, does it mean we must give to everyone who asks? No. We’d be broke in a week. However I prefer to give and not lend. God has blessed me with more than enough and I’m happy to give where I’m able.

Hulk_kitty · Accepted Answer

yes of course, if you love your family, you certainly should help them.

It just depends on how well you get on with them. If it was me, I certainly would help them, family is more important than money.

But I wouldn't do it for my friends or girlfriend etc. I would only do it if she was my wife.

Kori1236 · Accepted Answer

Yup, my sister (best friend that’s become family) needed help paying her tuition so I gave her money for that that’s a loan she will be paying back. But if she needs help buying some groceries or kitty litter I’ll help and vice versa those are things that don’t need to be paid back at least not in our dynamic. The same goes with my mom, I sent her a thousand a couple months ago because she was struggling

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

I always send financial help to my parents monthly no matter what. They don’t have to ask. I just want to.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Thankfully my parents are retired and don’t need money.
I do give money to my sister though. She has 3 children so never spends money on herself.

Whenever I treat myself, I give money to my sister to treat herself. When I go shopping for me, I go shopping for her too.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Not anymore. I haven't in months and I’m content because all a sudden they have money to pay their bills and eat out all the time. I guess They could only play broke for so long.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

As for me I’m a friend when I’m a friend & I’m your family when I’m your family but when it comes to money I’m not your friend, I’m not your family & I’m not a bank.

sage2021 · Answer

Yes I sure do! It makes me so happy when they call to thank me. I can just tell how excited they are 🙂

Walt832 · Answer

Only my parents and brother or my little dogs.  Hell the rest of family they are good just extending their hands and ask. They are lazy they choose that life.

comekitty · Answer

I've given money to my sister to help with various things

melanieeeB · Answer

Always but it also depends a lot on their reasoning and arguments to why

jennifer_bloom · Answer

My family does not need money since they are all rich or have rich parents / kids.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I've lent money when needed (deposits when renting properties), always needed it back (and have got it back)

DancingQueen16 · Answer

Well I did loan some money to my mom a few months ago and she did pay me back

art84 · Answer

To my nephew gave him $4. I wouldn't give money to my brother as he never paid my mom back when he gives him money.

Rangers · Answer

No, I'm the only one in my family who isn't super rich

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, some of them because I know their not liars and they actually need it and already know how to manage their money well. Basically, if their good and honest I help.

sudeki · Answer

Yepp I give money to my mom today 🙂 so I am happy I love my mom 🥰

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, I did whenever my mom or sister asked for it. (Either saved money or my birthday money).

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah I'll lend them cash, no interest unlike my clientele

horndog112 · Answer

I said “there’s no way you can fit that 8 inch strapon in me”… she disagreed and unfortunately won

Agape93 · Answer

Nope, they haven't earned that privilege

4ngelic · Answer

no cos im beyond broke

Potteplante · Answer

I send my oldest brother money every month.

sheikalana · Answer

Yes, but they never ask for it.

LiamJHayden · Answer

If I had family I would.

TrillXHippy · Answer

My brother. Way too much

Simslover92 · Answer

Yes I do.

LovingJo · Answer

Not anymore

Iron_Man · Answer

Everything

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

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