Whats disresprctful to you vs your parents?

[Anonymous]

Apparently. Speaking up for myself in response to their neglect or what have you is very disrespectful.

Lol

Whats disrespectful to me is not being respectful that I'm a person who deserves respect. Young or old

[GreekLorrd]

It's important to recognize that everyone has their own personal boundaries and what may be disrespectful to one person may not be to another. However, it's also important to communicate those boundaries and expectations clearly in order to maintain healthy relationships.

It sounds like in your situation, you feel disrespected when your parents neglect you or fail to recognize your worth as an individual. On the other hand, your parents may feel that speaking up to them in response to their neglect is disrespectful. It's important to have open and honest conversations with your parents about how you feel and what you need from them in terms of respect and acknowledgement.

It may also be helpful to set clear boundaries and expectations for how you want to be treated and communicate those boundaries in a calm and respectful manner. It's possible that your parents may not be aware of how their actions are affecting you and may be more willing to work towards a healthier relationship once they understand your perspective.