Which is worse disrespecting your parents with words or actions?

[Anonymous]

Which is worse, the sort of kid who calls parents by their first name and tells them things like "F you" and "shut up", or the kid who is respectful to their parents in words, but behaves badly when they are not around like shoplifting, doing hard drugs, or joining a gang. There are of course examples of kids who are guilty of both, but for the kids who only do one of those things which is worse?

Kids who disrespect their parents with words

Kids who disrespect their parents with actions

[strateguy632]

Huh? How are those examples of insults? Why can't i call my parents first name or tell them shut up same as they say to m3, and to kids and to adults... unless parents don't say shut up to kids. But they do.

Similarly your act list, shoplifting and drugs does not insult parents. if my kid did it, then... i would be... insulted? No just concerned!

And even " f you " used to be harsh but now tv and films say it so much in movies it is not disrespectful anymore.

So in terms of parents no relation, unrelated lists, so just the crime is worse.

You expect kids honor? "The honorable judge presiding? All rise the court is in seession?

And respect does not mean "obey" when i tell her clean her room or any other parental whim. Respect is the way of talking.