After you confessed to your dear friend.. does your friendship still remains?

[dophix]

I mean, you two remain close friends, or are there changes? Friendship is fading?

[Leapfrog00]

Most friends I had, I had to be careful what I said to them. They weren't the type of friends you could go to if you had a problem, or you needed someone to talk to, or if you were feeling suicidal, Heaven forbid it should ever happen.

Anything you said to them, they would later use it against you if you said something to upset them. They only cared about themselves and their own needs. They were the kind of friends you could drink with, watch a movie with, or even play miniature golf with, but as for talking, not a good idea.

I remember one time my girlfriend broke up with me and I was with her for 2 years, and a friend I used to have named Maquela came to pick me up to take me to the mall with her. I started talking about how much I missed my ex, and I accidentally shed a tear, and she told me if I was going to be sad, she was going to take me back home.

You had to act a certain way with these types of friends. But as far as the friendship, if I would have talked about anything personal, they would have broke the friendship off. They broke it off anyway because of other things they weren't happy with.

I was always that friend that someone could call up at 3 in the morning and I would listen to everything they have to say, but I really believe that's just me. Everyone wants good friends but I really don't believe they exist. I went from having 50 friends to 0 since last year. Anyone who has good friends though, I wish them the best of luck and hope they stick around for them.

[ohsheeT]

It depends on what you confessed I mean if it was something wrong or something to hurt them no they're going to drift away from you probably

[_no_one_]

Ever since i confessed we have been in a very serious relationship. Supporting each other like friends and lovers being by each other's side always.

[Luopio27]

If you are talking about friendship after rejection, then thats it, a no go for me.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Confess what, sweetheart? The warm and fuzzies?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Or that you're the one who fed their family dog chocolate in 3rd grade?

[dophix]

Feelings 🤦‍♀️

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol, yeah I imagine the relationship would change. Whether it's good or bad all depends on if it's mutual

[Anonymous]

It can change things.