What's something you regret doing and wish you could change or take back?

[KateDemee]

What's something you regret doing and wish you could change or take back?

Can be big or small that had an impact on you

[ohsheeT]

In our world that we grow up in you don't understand this until you start getting older and older but everything we do I don't care if it's like me speaking right now everything has caused and effect I think this is one of the most beautiful questions ever because I wish they would teach this in kindergarten all the way up to high school cause and effect everything we do there is a cause and effect to it I can say there are probably a lot of things that I regret in one breath but in the same breath it's over once it it's done it's over the only thing you can do is learn from it and grow with it and when you do that a positive will come out of it no matter what happens in our life it might be a negative at that moment but believe me there will become a positive and you will be kind of happy that it happened that way it could have been worse so I'm sure there's things I regret that you can't take back time you can't go backwards you got to go forward and everything that I've done if I was to take something back it would change the outcome of who I am today probably so I go with the flow I try not to put myself in those positions love this question and I wish every grade school would teach children this they need this whole thing growing up cause and effect

[blueonblack22]

I was in situation years ago where I met the right woman at the wrong time in my life. Truth is I needed to be single at that time but I couldn’t get myself to break with her. I drove her into breaking up with me instead.

My twisted rationale was that she would be less heartbroken if I behaved in ways to turn her off vs. breaking up with up her.

I had never been in that situation before and I didn’t know how to handle it.

[sunflower00]

Eating so much lmao I regret getting into bad eating habits. I’m not obese but I struggle with binging and my weight goes up and down - sometimes I’m a bit overweight and usually unhappy with my body. I eat healthy now and exercise most days but I know once I get to my ideal weight I’ll have a bit of loose skin/sagging boobs or won’t look as good as I could’ve done. I shouldn’t dwell on it though!

[KateDemee]

I understand but yeah don't dwell on that. We all regret things I think

[Billlewis]

I don't think you should feel bad about consuming a lot of calories. You'd be amazed by how many men prefer plus sized women over average women. I'll bet you're sexy as hell!

[sunflower00]

@Billlewis I’m not plus sized, I’m 5’4 and my highest weight was 152lbs but I’m 138lbs now. I’m just chubby which I don’t like and don’t want loose skin

[provokeesmokee]

Several things:
- get a job and therapy without telling my parents
- move out for uni
- don't study business, do computing science
- don't let my mother pressure me into giving her $5k
- open up to my father's family sooner
- don't date white cishet men, never do long distance
- adopt two cats at once

[FunkyMonkee]

It's more what I regret NOT doing but, I had NO idea those fucking greedy self-centered cunts were gonna do this to mom & I but, had I known,. I would made DAMN SURE it was VERY clear that she left the house to ME!!

[KateDemee]

I don't know what you mean but sounds nasty. Hope you're ok!

[FunkyMonkee]

I'm doing what I can to get by, thanks!
It boils down to: my ex-sisters were stealing from mom in at least her last few years alive. I was the only living at home with mom and was helping her get through her recent ordeals (stroke and cancer) and they just wanted to shunt her off to a nursing home and sell the house out from under me to get MORE money they didn't deserve!
Before she died, mom had her Will changed so that I'd get a life estate and a 50% share of the house and each of them would get 25%. The original Will said we each get 1/3. They had their own houses so, they didn't need any of that house! But, they contested the validity of the signature and Will claiming she was on drugs (morphine) when she signed it and that her sister and I made her sign it! In the end, they won, I lost the house and more than half of my belongings and history!! That house had been in the family since 1936 and I was the only one left to see to it it stayed in the family!
About a minute before she signed the new Will, her visiting nurse gave her half a drop of morphine!

[KateDemee]

Sorry to hear you had to go through all that

[FunkyMonkee]

Thank you!

[Potteplante]

Taking that first beer at 14 & starting drugs. that led to a lot of years, self medicating and not caring about myself - searching for someone who "cared" about me, confusing sexual acts - with love.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Being over nice to cousin and one cousin came to my house for meals. Sad to say I was left out cold and also when my mom passed away the relatives did not care about me, I only receive a small amount of check back then.

[ProfileUnknownWoman]

When I just started school, I bullied a girl He was wearing diapers because he was sick. I made fun of taking the diaper out of his bag and showing it to everyone. I think that's what I regret the most.

[SnowedIn]

Well... it's not something that I did as I didn't do. I regret not finishing college.

[dtweed1996]

I regret not taking a chance with my neighbors friend I wish I had another chance with her

[Paris13]

My Breakup I did with My Ex... xxoo

[MemeSupreme]

spice. it's not fun especially i get high to avoid my anxiety - not get more anxious

[Friendlybro79]

I regret ordering the pork chop instead of the ribeye the other night. I've lost sleep over this.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Verbally and emotionally abusing the girl I loved

[OddBeMe]

Shoulda had waffles this morn, not pancakes.

[msc545]

Getting married

[MemeSupreme]

damn

[BLP11520]

Seriously? Not married to this person

[Fuentes]

Nothing