Do you get tired of proving to others that you are worth their time?

[Anonymous]

As i've gotten older, I've just gotten tired of having to prove to employers that I am worthy of being hired, worthy of being promoted, worthy of a cute boy's time for a date, worthy of a man's attention, worthy of being hit on. I'm tired of trying to impress my parents that I am the girl they wanted me to be. At some point, I feel like I've burned out and I just don't care anyone. Either they take me or leave it. I don't care anymore if someone doesn't like me for whatever reason or if someone is angry at me. At some point, I have to live my life. I can't be looking at other people's opinions all the time. do you feel the same way as you got older?

[MementoMori777]

Yep mostly with women, I've learned that if they wanna be with the shit, they will soon realize the masterpiece they had infront of them at one point but when they try looking for it again, it's gone lol

[Asker]

you probably were never a masterpiece, thats why none of them want you

[MementoMori777]

I know I'm the masterpiece, your opinion is worthless cause you are probably a reject a society if you are here crying about your problems 😂

[MementoMori777]

In society*

[Asker]

so why do you get rejected so much?

[Asker]

cream of the crop top notch guys don't get rejected like you do

[MementoMori777]

I don't get rejected I just pick up friend zone vibes before I even try anything, it is what it is tho, I'm not a model so it's most likely That, I don't know what you mean by top notch but I don't really care, I'm just answering ur question

[Asker]

well your answer sounded bitter as hell.

[MementoMori777]

It did? Well then I guess bitter is how you'll continue to see it, either ways your welcome for the opinion 😂

[Mynameisbobby]

I know what you mean. I was brought up being told that I never would be worthy of anything because I'm a boy. I believed it.

[comekitty]

Be happy with you - at the end of the day, that's all that counts. 😊

[DerekC321]

Yes, I get the same way as you. It is exhausting. I've been body shamed in more than one way

[OddBeMe]

If it takes awhile to do it, I’d spend more time bettering yourself.

[Hithere4567]

Yes, I agree with you. It gets SO tiring.